okay so first off, I have never met him in person before. we met on Facebook (way back in November of '10) through a mutual friend's status that we both commented on and we just kept going back and forth commenting on the status for like an hour (lol). So i added him as a friend, and then i received a text from some random number, and it was him! (he got my cell number off of my profile) so we started texting A LOT! And he always texts me every single day ever since! (going on 8 months now) (:

so now that you know all of that.... the reason why i think he likes me is cause; (you know when you do stuff like " *hug* " for like actions and stuff?) he always dose stuff like *hug* *cuddle* *massage* and one time he put *holds your hands* cause i was saying that my hands were cold lol. but he is almost all the time telling me how beautiful i am (even though i really don't take complements very well). One day he told me that i was the one person that he is addicted to texting haha. I'm the type of person that does not like to bother people and i constantly worry that im bothering someone lol so, one time i asked him what was up and he said "nm just playing NFS" (need for speed) and i replied "ohhh fun! well i'll let you enjoy your game without interruptions text me later(:" and he said "NOO STAY" then me:"but i don't want to bother while your gaming, then you'll get tired of talking to me :3" him:" upshh i could never have too much of you. nope not possible :P " and yeahh i think he might like me but im not sure if he is just being nice or what lol Oh and he occasionally calls me "sugar" but once again i don't know if that's something he calls all girls he talks to or what lol. ohhhhhhhhhhh and theres been a few times he's said "I love you" or "i lurvs ju" but i think he was just playing or sarcastically saying it.


We have planed on meeting (he lives like 20 mins away) but with jobs and other things coming up we haven't had a chance to meet yet :/

soo all in all.. what is your take on this?? do you think he likes me? or just a nice guy?

first off, how old this guy?

and you met on here in 2010,yet this profile was made today?

he probably likes you, I'd still meet in a VERY well lit place though and let him know that you've told folks you're meeting him! :-)

He's setting you up for possibly having sex with you in the future. If that's all you want out of this relationship then do what you need to do. If you'll looking for something more then be straight up with him, in person, and watch his body language as you tell him. The trick here is not to deceive yourself cause sometimes we see stuff and we know what it's saying but because we want something sooo bad we disregard the obvious.
I hope I haven't confused you too much.

Frankly, he sounds like he may be gaming you. Maybe he is interested in a relationship, but it could be that he is setting you up for something. There could be a serious interest, but be very cautious. That you have doubts about his intentions lets me know you are not sure of him and his intentions. All this time and only 20 minutes away and always too busy or something says a lot. Do you have video messenger?? I always talk on video and voice messenger before meeting face to face. If they are legit, they will. If they have a menu of excuses why they can not talk with video and voice messenger, they are playing games. With all the predators out there, and the net allowing them to be even more deceitful, I am very cautious. If they dont want to get video messenger for any one of a thousand excuses, how can they be trusted? I have no problem with video and voice messenger for anyone that wants to see my smile and hear my voice - I have nothing to hide. I would also recommend to meet somewhere very public for your safety. Be cautious, take a friend if you decide to meet wouldnt be a bad idea either, but dont tell him in advance you are bringing a friend. Everyone I have met face to face that brought a friend, I understand why they did and have no problem with that. If he has a problem with that, I would suggest to run screaming.

Hey Lady Nightowl50! I think you are so astute when interacting with folks here. Sometimes folks make mistakes. Sometimes folks learn from they're mistakes. Sometimes they continue they're behaviors pretending as if they've learned from their mistakes. We all have interior motivators that drive us to perform certain behaviors that ultimately define who we are.
What motivates you? What motivates me? I think we would have a most entertaining time acertaining ouir collective interior motivators. Don't you?

i have a strong feeling this is an older (most likely married) guy. With only being 20 minutes away, they should have met by now unless something was stopping him. He has all the smoothness of an older man that knows the right things to say. Someone close to her age range would not know the right buttons to push and would not wait to meet with her.

Koki, I am here because i enjoy the chatter with friends i have made.
It is doubtful that i would ever find you entertaining. Although when i was single i met men that i didn't think i would click with just to give them a chance. Married, i would never meet any single men anymore.

Good come back. But first, yeap... dude is married trying to get him some on the side. That's why he won't meet her... yet. When he thinks he can get away with it he will make a move. Eventually he will get caught. If not with this girl then with the next one. That's how guys are.

I know you've been here a spell or two. I know you're married because I read your profile. But if you think I am making a pass at you then you're mistaken. I am not on the prowl. I do believe you have male friends on here...I thought we could click that way. So your chance of clicking with me has been irreversibly revoked!

Good come back. But first, yeap... dude is married trying to get him some on the side. That's why he won't meet her... yet. When he thinks he can get away with it he will make a move. Eventually he will get caught. If not with this girl then with the next one. That's how guys are.

I know you've been here a spell or two. I know you're married because I read your profile. But if you think I am making a pass at you then you're mistaken. I am not on the prowl. I do believe you have male friends on here...I thought we could click that way. So your chance of clicking with me has been irreversibly revoked!

Good come back. But first, yeap... dude is married trying to get him some on the side. That's why he won't meet her... yet. When he thinks he can get away with it he will make a move. Eventually he will get caught. If not with this girl then with the next one. That's how guys are.

I know you've been here a spell or two. I know you're married because I read your profile. But if you think I am making a pass at you then you're mistaken. I am not on the prowl. I do believe you have male friends on here...I thought we could click that way. So your chance of clicking with me has been irreversibly revoked!

Good come back. But first, yeap... dude is married trying to get him some on the side. That's why he won't meet her... yet. When he thinks he can get away with it he will make a move. Eventually he will get caught. If not with this girl then with the next one. That's how guys are.

I know you've been here a spell or two. I know you're married because I read your profile. But if you think I am making a pass at you then you're mistaken. I am not on the prowl. I do believe you have male friends on here...I thought we could click that way. So your chance of clicking with me has been irreversibly revoked!

Good come back. But first, yeap... dude is married trying to get him some on the side. That's why he won't meet her... yet. When he thinks he can get away with it he will make a move. Eventually he will get caught. If not with this girl then with the next one. That's how guys are.

I know you've been here a spell or two. I know you're married because I read your profile. But if you think I am making a pass at you then you're mistaken. I am not on the prowl. I do believe you have male friends on here...I thought we could click that way. So your chance of clicking with me has been irreversibly revoked!

Good come back. But first, yeap... dude is married trying to get him some on the side. That's why he won't meet her... yet. When he thinks he can get away with it he will make a move. Eventually he will get caught. If not with this girl then with the next one. That's how guys are.

I know you've been here a spell or two. I know you're married because I read your profile. But if you think I am making a pass at you then you're mistaken. I am not on the prowl. I do believe you have male friends on here...I thought we could click that way. So your chance of clicking with me has been irreversibly revoked!

wow.. thanks for all the safety tips! But i know for sure he is not an older married guy lol. And i know this cause he is the son of my older sisters Teacher from high School. :) she has met him before and turns out that we have about 4 mutual friends! and like i said it's not just him that can't meet up with me. It's both of us. something always comes up. :/

It was on FaceBook, not here :) and we are both 18 atm

well that just breaks my heart lol

Well careful you don't step on any of the shards. Glass slices deep.

yep -he likes you