or do they just do it because they think it might lead to more?

Both

i know my man sure loves to cuddle...before and after. *blush*

mine likes it too..some realy do like it..it's when they get all hands is when you know he was lieing..lmao

Blah@cuddling lol

The Chino loves to cuddle. Don't believe me?? Oh well, it's your problem anyway. LOLOLOLOLOL.

The only time I'll cuddle is while talking lol (before)

Some guys don't, some do. I think most of the time, they do like it, but just not as much as women. We tend to wanna cuddle for hours, lol.

I love it, but.... being a crocodile death-roller, I'd have to be careful not to get the arm stuck under when they fell asleep, or it'd just get wierd. Either they'd be thrown from the bed if I were asleep or I'd have to wiggle it out from under them without waking them.

However... most guys -when cuddling -are probably staring wide-eyed and thinking over and over "I'd like to be doing more, but if I go hands-on she'll think I don't like to cuddle and don't really love her."

hehehehehehehe

Im not a big cuddler is why I asked unless I really like a guy then i will cuddle for a while , that was the past , now im not sure cuz its been a loooooong time lol.

Better try it and see.

That's why you cuddle after, lol. Problem solved. Oxytocin wins!

I love to cuddle especilly front a fireplace on a cold winter night

or do they just do it because they think it might lead to more?

YES!!!

A nd if Crocodile Death-Rolling catches on and gets chicks nekkid, we'll Crocodile Death-Roll...We won't LIKE that, either!

1. We moved out of perfectly good caves.
2. We quit dragging our knuckles.
3. We quit clubbing...TWICE.
4. We brought the outhouse inside.
5. We quit scratching our private parts in public, except for the Great Baseball Compromise.
6. We cu....cu....cu...cuddle.
I think we've been pretty flexible, but don't push it!

Plenty of guys really do like cuddling.

Plenty of guys really do like cuddling.

They like where it leads!
Plenty of guys "say" they like cuddling, in the real or imagined presence of real or imagined potential "cuddle-mates"!

No, no no. I'm talking about AFTER. When they're dead and spent.

I totally do anytime -because it would be with my wife -and I'd know the other would happen eventually -nothing like half the day sunday spent snuggling -it'll be great when I get a life someday -unless we're in so many wars they draft chubby 40 somethings. I'd have to be a cook -or in the band. I honestly don't think I could kill. I could immobilize the living hell out of someone under the right circumstances, however. Snuggling with a hottie wife would be better, though.

Yep -my mind really does think stuff like that.

Killing is easy when the alternative is dying!

Usually the guys who like cuddling are the same guys who hug pillows in their sleep. ; P

I don't see things that way. God knows when I'll die -and I don't fear death enough to err to avoid it. I've had a few bullets fly my way -and I'm just not worried about it.

Fear makes you vulnerable to manipulation -faith shows a path otherwise invisible.

In returning and rest shall ye be saved; in quietness and in confidence shall be your strength: and ye would not.
But ye said, No; for we will flee upon horses; therefore shall ye flee: and, We will ride upon the swift; therefore shall they that pursue you be swift.

I totally do that -got the huge pillow -helps the back -and keeps me from harm when I death-roll.
+ it's not as embarrassing as a teddy bear

Seriously, though -whether you have back trouble or not, stuff a pillow under your knees if on your back -or between your knees if on your side -takes stress off the spine -and you have plenty of ammo for pillow fights.

No one sees it that way...until put in Harm's Way. Who mentioned "fear" as the motivator? It's not. Soldier/warrior motivation is SURVIVAL! The bonds of a fighting unit are too strong to explain in a pedestrian manner. But when you eat, sleep, breath, and mourn within that small group, it's survival becomes more important than your own. You aren't killing because a President declared war. You kill because someone else is trying to kill the closest thing you have to family...

no time for proper response

First, I would not willingly be part of a killing unit -nor would I willingly put myself in a position to follow orders with which I did not agree. If I were drafted, I would be a conscientious objector. I would have no problem going into a combat zone as a medic or what-not, but I would not carry a gun.

Luk 3:14 And the soldiers likewise demanded of him, saying, And what shall we do? And he said unto them, Do violence to no man, neither accuse any falsely; and be content with your wages. (In other words... thou shalt not kill, bear false witness or covet -some read it differently, and that is between them and God. Some religious believe killing is acceptable in war due to Israel's involvement in war, but they did not war until they disobeyed and chided against God -and then were still guilty unless specifically directed by God.)

I've been shot at here at home from Corpus Christi to St. Cloud -drugged, poisoned, defamed, harrassed, harangued -had family members maimed and killed -others separated and systematically turned against each other. Some might say I have many valid reasons to kill -and if it weren't for the commandment, I'd probably agree -but what good would it do? I could probably take a few of them out before they got me, but I've been far more effective without a gun in my hand or murder in my heart. I would see it no differently in a combat zone -though others would most likely have a problem with it.

There is a difference between fear and cowardice. If we did not fear that our borders would be breached, our interests attacked or the innocent harmed, we would not have the National Guard, armed forces, etc... -fear is indeed the motivator. It is good to plead the cause of the widow and fatherless -but they can be protected without relying on sin one's self -however, this requires faith.

Obvioulsy, not everyone sees it this way -and we will have war until we no longer can -one way or another. To have peace on earth, war must be absent. I choose to live that way now. All that we think we have no choice but to do will lead us to self-annihilation.