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sweet-steven

Joined: 7/14/2013

so i been doing alot of dating sites (with no luck) but as i realized most women wont give a guy the chance unless he lives in the same state or country.

why is this?

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jem1987

Joined: 7/20/2007

Because we're too broke to try dating someone long distance.

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sweet-steven

Joined: 7/14/2013

Reply to: Because we're too broke to try dating someone long distance.
so, women dont believe in love unless it's close to them?

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jem1987

Joined: 7/20/2007

It has nothing to do with that. If both people are too broke to even meet once, let alone multiple times, then they cannot cultivate a full relationship. It's not possible. I'm not going to "date" someone online for years.

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Trillian

Joined: 5/3/2013

relocatability is the main question. most men and most women i meet on here are not relocatable or interested in long distance dating.

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sweet-steven

Joined: 7/14/2013

hmm, well it does seem like society out there today has shaped our generation when it comes to relationships. ohh well, my goal in life is to find someone who wont mind moving from time to time. i want to live a least 1yr in every state i have the means to do so....so i guess why not right.

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jem1987

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Society affects every generations idea of relationships. Always has, always will. Wanting to move every year is great, I would love that. However trying to establish a strong relationship is difficult with distance. It's not the same. If you're moving every year, you're still together. When you're trying to form a relationship in 2 different states, or even countries, it's nearly impossible unless you have the means to meet each other often enough.

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m1nn1e

Joined: 10/10/2012

Reply to: hmm, well it does seem like society out there today has shaped our generation w...
well yeah ive moved alot in my life i dont mind but its kind of a big deal 2 move 4 some1 u meet online no matter how great he seems and seriously it would freak me out a little 2 have a guy move 2b close 2 me when we dont really know eachother its alot of pressure i mean u can get 2 know some1 2 a certain level without spending time 2gether but i dont think well enough 2 make a huge life change like that ive watched my mom move 4 men she did know and its never worked once so itd take a lot 4 me 2 do something like that

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sweet-steven

Joined: 7/14/2013

Yea i can see all the points and everything, im moving for myself and not for anyone else. im tired of my state and need a change in scenery. you never know moving to a new state may bring better luck.

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