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str0k3m3

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what would you do?

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mzztatt

Joined: 1/30/2007

walk out...especially if it is one of my son's. Its a natural behavior in teens. Nothing I want to see and they sure dont want mom walkin in then having the " sex talk" while they are in the middle of it. LOL

boyfriend or husband?...depends. If we're not on good terms at the moment, I'd walk out. If we are on good terms and i'm feelin frisky i might go watch then "join in" and go from there :)
If we are on good terms but i'm not in the mood I'd probably walk out n go do something else.

Women who freak out on their men ..bf or hubby...for doing that will only put strife in the relationship and vice versa. Sometimes people are just in that mood at that moment and want some alone time. If it's something that happens all to often tho and that takes precedence over the sex between you both or is some kind of serious addiction, then i'd say there's a problem. Otherwise..eh...give them their space. Theres women that do it to ...it's just how it goes for some. For others they dont feel the need for it if with someone else.
Some men/women feel betrayed or left out or w/e, if their other half masturbates. Something you'd have to talk about and work thru and come to some sort of compromise or accept it. For some it's a control issue, which isnt healthy in a relationship.

I think this topic needs more of a specific instance or background to answer it better.

What exactly are you referring to? a specific situation or person or relationship or problem?

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nighthowl50

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i know for myself....sometimes i want it simple and quick and it is easier alone.

i agree with the above though. it depends on who and when it happens.

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str0k3m3

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Reply to: i know for myself....sometimes i want it simple and quick and it is easier alon...
the other night\

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str0k3m3

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Reply to: walk out...especially if it is one of my son's. Its a natural behavior in teen...
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*Sliver!*

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Yeah I seriously doubt that happened.

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str0k3m3

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Reply to: Yeah I seriously doubt that happened.
im not lying

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*Sliver!*

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Why would you tell people that? (Assuming it is true)

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str0k3m3

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i wanna know who is wrong here

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*Sliver!*

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Seeing as I doubt it happened, there is no answer.

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mzztatt

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Reply to: Yeah I seriously doubt that happened.
why would u doubt someone walked in on another masterbating? it happens alot more than you think....parents bust their kids all the time. It's a fact of life.

heck, i walked in on my 1st husband masturbating...and? why would it be doubtful it happened?

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mzztatt

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Reply to: i wanna know who is wrong here
what do you consider the wrong part? you walkin in or the guy masterbating?

i dont see any side of it being wrong. masterbation is quite common.

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*Sliver!*

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My god you're questioning my thoughts a lot tonight.


It's doubtful because no one would EVER willing share that sort of shit.

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mzztatt

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just strikes me tonight catching up with all my readin in the forum that im surprised by some of the things you've said so i question them...its how i am lol nothing personal just clarifying things in my own thoughts and opinions.

I've seen far stranger things for thread topics than this ....this doesnt seem a far streach for a topic. lol

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GreenEyedGuy23

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Sounds like someone is embarrassed to talk about their habits, perhaps a little self conscious. If it wasn't for jacking off I would have simply blown my brains out in Iraq. Thank whomever you want, but it is a necessary/fun/awesome/amazing/ simple sin.

Hah, my ex-gf walked in one day and the first thing she said was, "What? I am not good enough?" In which I simply replied, "It's not that, you just aren't fast enough." Needless to say I slept on the couch and we broke up a week later. Got to love an understanding woman!

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*Sliver!*

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You completely insulted her for no reason. I don't blame her for kicking you out.

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GreenEyedGuy23

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Actually it was my apartment and she insulted me first, I kicked her out soon afterwards due to other issues. I think it is incredibly foolish to think that if someone pleases them self that there is a direct connection to how well another pleases you and even more so offensive to believe that so strongly as to create awkward situations where the one who does enjoy such behavior has to do so in secret in their own home.

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*Sliver!*

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Maybe she meant it as a joke. Maybe she was serious, we weren't there, we don't know.

But that doesn't give you the right to inform her in such a rude way that she's not good enough in bed.

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jem1987

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I hate when women get pissy if their boyfriends jerk off. It all leads back to insecurity.

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GreenEyedGuy23

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Amen! And how is you are not fast enough an insult, I was implying that she takes a long time to orgasm compared to masturbation. That is a fact, not an insult.

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*Sliver!*

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Facts can be insults. But you're 23, I'm gonna try to explain logic to you.

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mzztatt

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points to my 1st comment on this topic to the 23 yr old guy. there ARE variances to this kind of thing.

and personally i would have been insulted if my man said that to me. Men and women pride themselves in satisfying their other half ...and if its out right spewed in their face that they aren't then of course they would feel insulted. That my friend is a logical behavioral response to your statement to her..especially when in the midst of a masturbation session. Most likely couldnt have made her feel any more worthless as a lover than that very moment in that circumstance, imho.

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GreenEyedGuy23

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Oh I love the age card! Fun!

I would assume when you come upon a private moment that someone is having without you, interrupt it, act rude, and then try and make it incessantly about you rather then letting them be, that you somewhat deserve what comes. Even if I spoke out of irritability of not only having been interrupted, but then have to hear one of the oldest, most worn out statements of all time, I really think that if the person cared they would just chill and let it go.

2 way streets are often full of people trying to go the wrong way.

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jem1987

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I completely agree. If she's going to give you a hard time, she should expect to hear something back. I personally don't find that comment insulting, because I am secure with myself. It's not really a diss, in any form.

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mzztatt

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Reply to: Oh I love the age card! Fun! I would assume when you come upon a private momen...
so if she was incessantly (as you stated) saying things like that to you, is it because you were incessantly masturbating and leaving her out of the intimate moments you should be sharing with her when in a relationship? LMBO

just an assumption...and a haha funny...because u are correct it is a two way street. One or both usually assuming they are always right and the other wrong. lol

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