i am Thompson, am 22 years old, cool and honest, i have never been into date for once, i dnt know why, whenever i remember that i am not into dating, i always feel sad, up to now i am on so many dating website in other to get a girl, i dnt even mind the type of girl she may be, even i dnt care if she is handicap but i have never find one, this is my problem, i need to share it out, please help me out...... Am i too ugly or am too small, please reply me

you come across as someone who is not american in looks and how you type. perhaps you need to verify your profile.

yes, i am not oringinated from American, just get to the state some month ago

i have verify my problem, i think am too ugly?

Okay brother, let me try to help you out. First if you are posting this than you are showing a huge lack of confidence. Women love confidence. You have to be able to like yourself, then someone will like you.

Second thought that comes tom mind is that finding a woman is a constant struggle. You have to do what I call play the numbers. If you talk to enough girls you will eventually find one that likes you.

If you find that one that likes you and somehow you mess it up, which happens, you learn from that mistake. Women eat men alive every single day. Just because you get rejected does not mean you are defective, it means she just is not interested. There is nothing wrong with that.

You should try to improve your written communication skills. Mine are decent and I have been working on them for a while. Biggest advice I can give you is just keep trying and don't stop trying.

You act like a really good guy and what you say makes perfect sense in this case. I appreciate how you honor him and do not cut him to pieces as others could or would. I would suggest that he accept that thought creates action - that how he thinks and believes will create his outer life. When he believes that he can be successful, he will see that occur in his life. For now, that may be too advanced, so you've taken the right course.

Ah fuck it, after all I have read on here...keeping it cool is not even an option anymore:

He is hardly 22, he is not in the US he is in Africa, and he will not improve his writing because he is simply looking for a way to get to the "state"...

"Thompson".. really?

I have either become impossibly cynical or this site has become a joke of fake profiles, multiple Id's and engages in a terrible display of the worst of human behavior ever...and yet here I am engaging. Seriously, I think I need a life! I had just about forgotten about this site... The more I read, the more I regret being compelled to read the 686 threds/posts I had missed out on!

Nope Liana, you hit it right on the head. Whose head, you may ask?? Well, I'd offer mine, but nothing is to be had for my brain has been depleted of all its functioning brain cells that produce thoughts of a sound mind.