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B RIZZLE

Joined: 8/23/2008

y is it that if a slim guy says hello to pretty girl most of the time she is all for it. but if a heavy guy says hell she turns up her nose and turns the other way. just because the guy may be large doesn't mean he is an ass hole or a slob. we treat women nicer and are more respectable that most of the good "good looking" guys. just give us a chance.

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dfury90

Joined: 11/11/2008

I see alot of fat guys with decent looking girls out and about.

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artistbytrade

Joined: 5/24/2003

Most women want a man that takes good care and respects himself. Pay attention though, cause those women that turn up their noses also don't like guys that drink too much, smoke too much, or any other over indulgences.

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sizzlin

Joined: 9/28/2008

Body type doesn't mean much to me. I probably feel more uncomfortable with people who are thinner than I am.

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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

Sorry you have had that experience. Being a BBW myself, I have not had too many such experiences. Naturally I do not discriminate due to size and hope I will be afforded the same courtesy.
(I think bigger people try to please more anyway.)

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ashpie2008

Joined: 1/6/2008

When anyone says hello to me, I say hi right back. People are people. I think it's just everyone's preference that gets them. My theory is...never turn anyone down...friendship is sometimes for the best. Take me for example. I go clubbing a lot and a lot of guys talk to me because I am nice...so I have been told. Now, a lot of guys will dance with me and talk to me and I talk to them as well, but it never goes further than that. It's just a courtesy thing, so I think. Honestly, I go for the guys who are confident and sweet and great to be around. Looks aren't always everything.

So, don't give up!!

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whuru

Joined: 12/24/2003

People are somewhat ignorant when it comes to people(we all know this) people on webdate typically have thier groups of people they know and trust, Im not sure it has anything to do with what size a person is, so just jump in and throw yer self around a bit, people will come to love ya fer who ya are.
keep yer chin up
Crys'

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BlaqDove

Joined: 10/16/2004

To tell you the truth I dont discriminate, because most of the times the larger guys are the most genuine and they have good hearts, so don't knock it until you try it.

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just living ma ...

Joined: 7/23/2008

in our today world, when people watch movies and fashion shows, i think they fantasize about actresses or actors, or artist. so they always want to have a girl that looks exactly like people they see on tv. Or to have a babe or a lad that looks hotter than what their friends have. and most people care about what their friends think. so thats me opinion.

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DJTheHopefulRom...

Joined: 9/8/2007

Reply to: in our today world, when people watch movies and fashion shows, i think they fa...
Women in general and I'm not saying all women but quite a few I've had experience with tend to be much more picky and harsh about guy's body types then we are about girls. Personally I cannot say I favor any one particular size for a girl. The first girl I ever fell in love and had a relationship with you'd describe as petite and another would definitely be classified as a BBW. Both eventually ended in friendship but I can't say I found either one more or less desirable.

I may get some heat for this statement but I truly think women more then men overall judge potential dates by things that really shouldn't and don't matter in the long run. I'm not a huge guy but admittedly I have a gut and I know there have been cases where girls don't bother taking a second look and get to know me for that reason. Any guy feeling down about that though I say this....anyone who cannot get past these meaningless details tend to be empty shallow creatures who will never be truly loved for the person they are inside. There are good women out there the pickings just get slimmer and slimmer each day. Above all else I need to be in love with a girls mind and soul and be able to ask the age old question "Would I die for her?". If your one of the select few humans left who are capable of that kind of love I commend you.

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jem1987

Joined: 7/20/2007

Women are pickier because we are looking for someone to make babies with. We all have our different physical likes and dislikes, most of which we can't explain. It's just nature doing its work. Our subconscious telling us who we should mate with. While a man's instinct is just to spread his seed, a woman's is to pick the best mate.

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sweetninnocent84

Joined: 11/25/2008

I prefer some meat on the bones...I hate feeling like I'm going to crush someone...

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dfury90

Joined: 11/11/2008

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Thats prety sexist to say. I dont go around just looking for any girl to have sex with, I have standards and I keep them up all the time.

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imabadidea

Joined: 12/10/2007

To me it doesn't matter the size of a guy as long as he has the personality I'm looking for. Now granted I don't want a man who doesn't take of themselves, but who really does? But I have a question on the same note as your question but a bit different. You say most women don't even care to say hi to a bigger guy, well why is it that most men want a women who is thin and has big tits? That's all I seem to see. I think it's human nature, people want something or someone that looks pretty. And I know that may sound awful, but it's not, it's just life.

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DJTheHopefulRom...

Joined: 9/8/2007

Reply to: To me it doesn't matter the size of a guy as long as he has the personality I'm...
I actually have to disagree with that about guys and thin girls. That's the major Hollywood image they try and put over but I know alot of guys prefer women with curves and more realistic bodies. Now again and I don't want to be all gloom and doom because I know not all girls are like this but I see very few who are particularly into big guys....not that some won't date a big guy but I sadly just do not see many girls with that preference.

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camarodan30

Joined: 5/6/2008

True....Its like when we go out to buy a car. You want the nice car. Hell I have a Z28 Camaro that I built a 383 stroker engine for and it has a 6 point roll cage. I bought it when I was 19 years old and I'll be 31 on March 3rd. If I went to a dealership and a sales said we will give you this new ZR1 Corvette for your Camaro.....I would say DEAL!! That would never happen but I think you see my point. Sure my Camaro and I have a past but we all like pretty things.

I guess this makes since.

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B RIZZLE

Joined: 8/23/2008

ok thanks all. i dont just look at the chicks with big tits or a nice ass. the only thing i look at is really just teeth. i like the the lady i would like to get to kno to have a nice smile. if you seen my x girl you would c that. she has a fucked up face but a gourgouse smile. but thnx to every one who has gave me insperation that all women r not bitch's.

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B RIZZLE

Joined: 8/23/2008

ok thanks all. i dont just look at the chicks with big tits or a nice ass. the only thing i look at is really just teeth. i like the the lady i would like to get to kno to have a nice smile. if you seen my x girl you would c that. she has a fucked up face but a gourgouse smile. but thnx to every one who has gave me insperation that all women r not bitch's.

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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

Look, every guy I've been with has been on the heavier side, I don't mind that I think it's kinda sexy.

But you can't say that heavier men treat women better cause that's just bullshit.

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xArmyRanger1

Joined: 12/30/2007

Reply to: well in my opinon I do not date fat guys because it's not if they are nice I ju...
well i can say u should be careful in what u say because the same thing might happen to you and other people would laugh at you

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xArmyRanger1

Joined: 12/30/2007

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honey u can't always get what u wish for the world doesn't evolve around u and ur ideas there r most men who are big and they are still in shape to keep up with anyone young or old and that old saying that fat guys having small penises is nothing but a myth.

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SweetNSimple722

Joined: 8/17/2008

Sorry mine is a novel, get your popcorn...

Why is that people just can't have preferences and we respect it? So those particular women weren't into you. Big deal. It's not necessarily a prejudice. You like pretty teeth, they like thinner men. I had to come to this realization as a plus size honey! I had a guy tell me once he prefers smaller women, and I am okay with that. No love lost. I made sure to put body shots in my profile, so you know exactly what you are getting, and you can decide if you are attracted to that or not. No personally. I don't discriminate, but I do have a few preferences, I am sure we all have at least ONE.

BTW...I really have to admit, that I am a little bothered by the fact that some people equate beauty with size. In the original posting it said"...and are more respectable that most of the good "good looking" guys." Just because a person is larger doesn't mean they aren't good looking. Now if you are not good looking (and who gets to decide that?), baby it don't matter if you are skinny or fat, that's a whole 'nother problem entirely. You can still be beautiful and on the larger side. Have you ever said she is so gorgeous to be such a big woman, or he is nice looking for a fat guy. What is that about? Instead of saying that just try saying she is gorgeous or he is good looking...period. I would like to think I am attractive and not attractive for a big woman, just attractive. Nah, we aren't all bitches...lol. Good luck w/ your search Teddy Bear!

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babygirll18

Joined: 9/27/2004

I dont think larger guys are unattractive, you just need to find the right girl ;)

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A little less t...

Joined: 8/25/2008

That's a good question. As for myself I am a people person and when someone say's hello to me , I say hello back.size should have nothing to do with communicating with a person.. Dose size matter when one is making love with another one, I would have to say yes. if one is not healthy enough to perform how can you have successful love making?.... As we age in life our bodies are not as in shape as they once were..but what a blessing it is to be alive to expirence changes ..I am a perfect example of it.I was 128 lbs most of my life until I was in a car accident 12 year's ago, at that time I was unable to do thing's as I use to and had to take medication that also added weight on me, I gained 15 lbs..am I obese Hello no....was my body as tight in the arm's legs , ass n abs as they use to be Hell no..did I lose it yes ...How ever I did start pumping iron again and my weight got up to a solid 140 lbs so I could lift my now guarding angel up, because he was so ill and could not do it himself... am I still pumping iron n as solid as I was when I was pumping iron and working out, No because I had back issues again .But I am still the same person within as I have always been...Do I look any where near my age no. is my body as solid as it was no, will it ever be the way it was a year ago no...but dose a 70 year old man or women's body look like it did when they were younger, HELL NO.... That's the problem a lot of people have in life , They seek a person for what there body look's like verses what's on the inside then wonder how in the hell they wound up with such an ugly person and in a unhappy relationship... as long as you are happy with you're body sweetie that's all that matter's...If a person is that rude to say Hi back to you because in there eye's you are to heavy, It just show's what an ugly person they are within themselves. That is there issue not yours and don't let it become you're issue...many people stop to acknowledge why a person can be or is over weight, it can be from an illness, depression, medication, family history ect.... a person can weigh 110 lbs and in someone else's mind they are considered heavy, or to skinny. so as the saying goes> Beauty is in the eye's of the beholder... I see many skinny people with what another would consider heavy, when I see that , that makes a loud statement to me and possible other's, that they accept the person for who they are on the inside and 95% of the time they are very happy in there life and in there relationship!! JUST BE WHO YOU ARE! If a person cannot accept you for who you are ,then you don't need or should want to have them in you're life in the first place!. Heyy just voicing my opnion!

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