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themaninthemoon

Joined: 11/20/2008

whats it mean after 4 months of dating a guy tells the girl he loves her and she replies she was not looking for love, that she can love but not be in love?

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Posted 9 years ago
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heidikins

Joined: 6/26/2007

it means she wants you in her life,but on her terms only.wanna share my doggie bone?
nah,i think what it means is she likes you,she just isn't ready,i'd give it just so long and then if no change,let her go. :)

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sweetcarmelitta

Joined: 2/25/2005

Yeah, man... Give her some time to straighten he head out...Believe me, the results of giving a woman her time and place will be amazing!

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B RIZZLE

Joined: 8/23/2008

fuck that. tell her that if she want to play games go buy a game boy. your too old for the shit. your not in high school n e more. well unless u love her for real, if thats the case give her time

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themaninthemoon

Joined: 11/20/2008

Reply to: it means she wants you in her life,but on her terms only.wanna share my doggie ...
yea i guess u are right we already stoped dating when she told me she had not been in the mood to date lately that gave me a clue big time that i must have been boring her with all the dinners and movies maby not enough in common and coming up with things to talk abought was hard. maby she had been hurt by others too much. maby we should have had more sex , i dunno im cool with it. thanx 4 the advice.

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heidikins

Joined: 6/26/2007

Reply to: yea i guess u are right we already stoped dating when she told me she had not b...
ooo,wow,sounds all to familiar..,it sucks hun,i know it,but it isn't all our fault and that's the hardest thing to realize,some adapt and attempt to move along faster than other's.good luck to you in the future. :)

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Kajunqueen

Joined: 11/29/2008

I think it was just a nice way to say she wasnt interested in long term,and she was probably just dating you to SEE if there was any sparks,or you may have been the only date she could find at the time(?).I still love my ex but not as a partner anymore,as a person.You cant be with someone 18 years and just stop loving them,there were good times too...
You done the right thing by moving on...why waste time if you are looking for love,and the other person isnt? There is someone else out there that is looking for it too...Just be patient,open and honest.

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