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Deckard

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Reply to: women like to play games mess with our head. and they say women mature earlier ...
When men ignore the women for a sporting event or working on his vehicle they call use boys and our toys, but how shall we respond to those women who whine, complain and use drama in order to manipulate all the while they are complaining about men being honest. Women lie all the time, the visual lie, your not that tall and you don't look like that in the morning, I was with a girl who had problems letting guys wake up beside her because she was insecure about herself without makeup on even though she was beautiful, grow up and get over it hun.

Some women just never grow up, Test this one out tell a girl no and see how she deals with with the word no, does she say fine and stomp away, shout, pout or just try to threaten you with something? I'm sick of games from women trying to find her mature knight in shining armor through show of desperation like "hey Look at my cleavage, I'm just like every other desperate women screaming for attention" Don't get me wrong I love the site of an athletic women but I'm looking for more class rather than just ass.

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Deckard

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Reply to: women like to play games mess with our head. and they say women mature earlier ...
When men ignore the women for a sporting event or working on his vehicle they call use boys and our toys, but how shall we respond to those women who whine, complain and use drama in order to manipulate all the while they are complaining about men being honest. Women lie all the time, the visual lie, your not that tall and you don't look like that in the morning, I was with a girl who had problems letting guys wake up beside her because she was insecure about herself without makeup on even though she was beautiful, grow up and get over it hun.

Some women just never grow up, Test this one out tell a girl no and see how she deals with with the word no, does she say fine and stomp away, shout, pout or just try to threaten you with something? I'm sick of games from women trying to find her mature knight in shining armor through show of desperation like "hey Look at my cleavage, I'm just like every other desperate women screaming for attention" Don't get me wrong I love the site of an athletic women but I'm looking for more class rather than just ass.

Cheers

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Deckard

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Yeah stomping your feet and pouting when you don't get your way is real mature lol

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Deckard

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Reply to: i say its so that it keeps the guy wanting you even more. but thats just my opi...
Playing hard to get isn't worth anyones time anymore, Maybe in a small town with only 30 women but in this day and age hard to get, gets you kicked out. I like the saying"there are no missed opportunities because if you don't take advantage of them someone else will" So When you play hard to get the guy gets lost and finds a women who doesn't demand one sided honesty in a relationship but reciprocates. Women already subjugate themselves from the beginning with their hour long preparation just to go to the store.

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paper magnet

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I know his is an old thread but its really interesting. Sugah actually hit the nail on the head. Women do get approached thousands of times over their prime years. They have to develop mechanisms to weed out the guys that aren't the cream of the crop. They can afford to do that because they literally have thousands of options, and that's no exagerration. They simply don't have the time to see if every guy that approaches them is worth their time, so they give guys tests. One is a test of your persistence. If you give up too easy, you lose. They also test our confidence, maturity, sense of reality, social status, mental strength, ambition, and a lot of other things. In fact, the "hard to get" game is only the tip of the iceberg. Now you're talking, laughing, chilling, even dating, it isn't over yet bro.

The good thing is that it works the same way in reverse. A guy who a woman is attracted to can compell the woman to chase him by being mysterious, socially savvy and pre-selected by other rival women. Men who have game know how to use this to their advantage and in some respect turn the tables on hard to get women. Don't hate the game, appreciate it. It's there for a very good reason.

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The more girls play the game the better as long as they are giving enough hints to keep the chase on. The hotter the girl the more she can get away with it. The better she flirs even more. Add in a personality, some brains and most guys are not worth of her. So she can do what she wants.

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youngmedical#1

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in some cases many had bad relationship so they build a wall after falling so long with pain sadness broken heart...etc so to prevent this cycle over and over agin they decide to be single to satisfy their own needs of happiness

in other cases some feel the need to show their strong side when actually they are shattered in the inside

then again she probably wants to get her life right before she starts settle down


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MetsandJets

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I'm not speaking for all women, but women is New York (most, not all) like a challenge. If a man is too easily blinded by her beauty and not willing or able to find out more about her interests, her values, and her aspirations in life, what's the point in being with a guy you can easily control. THERE'S NO MUTUAL RESPECT for one another, as some posters pointed out earlier.

Point being, most women I've talked with in New York wants a man that's sociable, understanding, and caring enough so that a relationship can be based on TRUST, not LUST.

So in closing, most women in New York (although this can apply to women elsewhere as well) wants a man for emotional security, able to accept her flaws (if any) and love her still, and willing to be there FOR her at all times, good or bad. This "hard to get" idea is only a test to see if the man is truly WORTHY of her time, as others may have pointed out already.

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Reply to: Well Said Williamtell.... it HAS been going on for centuries.. and will continu...
i believe if the man or the woman are both true spiritual christian people they will stay together and treasure eachother for all eternity, never mind the chase crap, that's what i believe, i like what you wrote though it is true. i'm just truly tired of any games or attention routines it's too shallow.

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monkey321

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First of all I think it rare that a girl comes along that really grabs your heart to where you really want to pursue her. When you meet this girl, and she plays hard to get it forces you to rise to the occasion. I think if you are that frustrated she isn't for you. If you really had the heart for her you would be up for the challenge. For instance if you really like a girl you will be willing to chase. Meaning accept slight rejection but be persistent. If you don't get a clear no, and are getting signals she is into you keep at it. Be friends and slip in you are beautiful every once in a while. Don't just walk away and pout. Keep on. Hound her with sweet gestures from time to time and then act like just her friend adn then start again. If she doesn't get snatched up by someone else in the mean time, you will feel like you climbed the highest mountain in the world when you finally get a yes, and you will have won her over....not an easy task, but well worth the battle.

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