Isn't about the person and not the bank account ?

Isn't about the person and not the bank account ?

try paying your rent with love and see what happens

its because women need a sense of security

Well an average job pays the rent ..and she can help pay the rent ..
and if she needs a sense of security she can secure herself..a lot of money isn't needed in a relationship..as long as the bills are paid and 2 are happy right ?

of course thats what i meant its not to be taken care of its so two people in a relationship are equal one person isnt being used it works both ways

You seem to be way off track with this ..let be more clear ..what I mean is that when dating I notice women are more interested in what job you have ..what difference does it make ..wheter I am a doctor or a cashier..the job doessn't make the person any better of a person but a lot of women seem to see different..I believe that women like to boast about their BF's to friends and family ..OOOOh he's a doctor ? Sure sounds exciting but is he a good man ..does he love you..hmmm that question doesn't come to most minds at first cause they are so high off of the " He's a doctor "

Same reason why guys like good looking girls that they can show off to their friends and family. It's just the way things are.

"Don't you know that a man being rich is like a girl being pretty?  You might not marry a girl just because she's pretty, but my goodness, doesn't it help?" - Marilyn Monroe as Lorelei Lee in Gentlemen Prefer Blondes

"Don't you know that a man being rich is like a girl being pretty?  You might not marry a girl just because she's pretty, but my goodness, doesn't it help?" - Marilyn Monroe as Lorelei Lee in Gentlemen Prefer Blondes

so if you where rich you would feel satisfied ?

Not what I said at all.

Not what I said at all. 

i was joking before

I think I have to agree with that ..but not all of us are like that ..I honestly put the inner person first ..

when i was dating, it was important that a man had a job as i had all i could do to support myself. i certainly was not going to try to support another person.

when i was dating, it was important that a man had a job as i had all i could do to support myself.  i certainly was not going to try to support another person.

for your family was it important that the person you where dating came from the right side of town ?

Having a job yes...but I am talking about women wanting men with real good and exciting jobs ..and decide whether they wanna date you according to income and status in life..

If you had a choice, would you date a Dallas cowboy's cheer leader or a hunch back toothless bald chick?

On the same lines...if we had a choice...would we date a man in management at a fortune..ah 1000 company? or would we date the guy who picks seasonal strawberries?

It's not just about the job, but the job a man holds is an extention of who he is, what his ambitions have been, the goals he set for himself and accomplished, and the social level which may or may not be compatible with the other person.

i only had myself to consider since all my kids were grown and out of house. as for the rest of my family, they had no say in who i dated and trusted my judgement.

Ha ha ! Honestly I never would go for a cheerleader..I tend to go for the more realistic woman ..less make up and more natural ..Women with perfect bodies turn me off...I like the unique not the freak ..

Why wouldn't you date a guy that picks starwberries ? Ever think that he may love his job ? I am sorry but that to me is such a shallow statement ..

I wouldn't have anything in common with a guy who picks strawberries. If you think that is shallow...so be it, but we all look for someone to complement who we are...I want to go back to school, and study statistics, what would I be discussing with someone who picked strawberries all day long?

How would the situation the economy is in and understand what might have gone wrong even be a subject of conversation?

I am not saying that the man who picks strawberries is less of a man or his job is not honorable...but would he be someone I can build a life with? NO.

FYI, Most people who are picking strawberries are hoping to find other jobs and progress and better themselves and provide their kids better opportunities then they had.

If I met and married a man who picks strawberries and likes it and doesn't want to ever do anything else in his life...would the children I have with him be well provided for? Would we be able to give them everything they need or they want? Could we send them to college? Would we have medical insurance if they get sick?

If he cannot with his job take care of or contribute to raising his family that means that I have to find a job that pays enough to do all these things for my children. Will my man feel like a man? Will he feel like the head of the household if his contribution to the family is minimal and when he alone could not provide for his children?

Since you first hit us over the head and dragged us out of the cave...it has been genetically inscribed in us to look for men who can be strong providers and good fathers to our young. You looked at our childbearing hips we looked at your muscular bodies for the ability to bring home the kill. Those jobs have been translated and evolved, but the genetic inscription is the same.
Today you are still looking at our hips but not to bear your young and you no longer have to go out and kill for the food we need...you now have nice paying jobs to PAY for the food we need.

It is sad that women are now looking for the man who can buy them mansions and furs, but that has also been an evolution that took both of us to help create.

When the first man left his wife of 20+ years who took care of him and the household and the kids...and married a younger woman....you helped created the monsters who are after your wallets today. You were old, and needed something to entice the young women, so you showered them with gifts...and so the new "moral" code began.

Congratulations! Now stop complaining about it.
Either we're after your money or we're competing with you and making more than you. Make up your minds as to what you want already because I am tired of the misogynistic and confusing bullshit!

You think we're emotional and complicated? Maybe with our feminist movement we helped create the whinny little girls most men have become. You pluck your eyebrows and complain that the woman at work has bigger balls then you!

Either grow a pair and take back the jobs of being providers or shut the fuck up and take your viagra while you shower some young vapid thing with diamonds in a hopeless attempt to hold on to your youth.

First off I don't support the fact that men leave their wives for younger women let alone leave them at all ..America has spoiled people with media and luxuries that ARE NOT IMPORTANT ! Couples need to be strong together and deal with the bumps along the way ..As far as being a real man and supporting a family ? Well guess what ! To support a family is to provide the basics ..food,shelter and clothing and throw the rest out the window ..A man can do this with a regular job ..the problem is that most people want all the things that they just don't need ..now I disagree that it is the parents responsibility to bust their ass to pay for their kids to go to college..helping them a bit " yes " ...these spoiled kids will never learn to survive without getting dirty and living through the tough days without living them..

I don't know what world you live in, but if this is the way you think and act, then my best to you and yours.

We will simply have to agree to disagree.

Simply cause we come from different worlds..

My favorite words by my parents growing up ..


You want something then go work for it ..

and if she doesn't like you for you then she isn't worth it !

And don't forget that young girls were often married away to older men specifically because they had money, and this was done by their fathers. Now they bitch if a woman here or there is interested in their money. Don't like girls interested in your money? Don't marry them. Easy.