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lovemeoryourlooser

Joined: 9/6/2008

O.k, girls get up hours ago,dress up for hours,do their hairs and all and when they go out and if the guy look at them or give them comment, he is a "pervert" Same thing on webdate, they turn on their cam, dress up and if the guy give them any comment, he is a "pervert" again....LOL. The reality is that the girls do that to get attention one way or another(girls love getting attention from guys). My question is why girls can't be real?? Why don't they just come out and say that they are doing all that crap for the guys to look at them and they love the comments they get from guys??

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Posted 9 years ago
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whuru

Joined: 12/24/2003

Hey there-
not every woman is looking fer attention notice in most rooms there are quite a few women and men without cams there fore they really dont care to be seen,they just want that social interaction...
also... girls are under the age of 18... hopefully the girl you are implying about are all adults...women.
Good luck..
Crys'

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ThiqueMadamme

Joined: 11/15/2008

Um..yeah. Well..

It depends on the comment. If I'm on my cam and a guy says "nice cam...you're very pretty", I'm going to smile and say "thank you". But if a guy says, "Hey...nice cam...you've got great tits!", that could get you anything from ignored to being called a pervert.

If a man uses the first approach, 9 women out of 10 are going to react positively. My guess is that since you've asked this question, you might lean toward using the second approach...either that or you've got lousy luck and keep finding the one woman out of ten that thinks anyone saying anything to them on cam is a pervert. If it's your approach, you might want to change your game. If it's your luck, well...keep trying. :-)

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just living ma ...

Joined: 7/23/2008

well mayb you dont give them nice comments you only comment on their body features like their boobs etc.

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jem1987

Joined: 7/20/2007

Often times, girls dress up just to show up other girls.

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DreamLoverNYC

Joined: 10/1/2004

thats the fuck up shit about it, they spend so much time trying to outdo other females that most guys are left wondering What the hell?? You are trying to compete and impress other women but not me??

Its like men are "Immature" "Perverts" but it seems the females are the ones that still remain immature in someway because they still wanna play dress up.

SAD. Keep strong guys, because we will always be wrong when it comes to speaking the REAL truth. Some people just love attention and block out their real Life!

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jem1987

Joined: 7/20/2007

Ok so some girls suck, and some guys suck... Surprise surprise!

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imabadidea

Joined: 12/10/2007

I'll admit, when I get dressed up and either get on cam or go out, I'm looking for comments. But I don't appreciate comments like 'nice tits, can you show more?'. To me that's the comments that get you ignored, I don't even call you a prevert. And as for the women dressing up to show up other women, it's true. The dating scene is a competition, you have to show you are the best in order to get the man you want.

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cali is here

Joined: 8/7/2005

We're supposed to dress up??? And we're supposed to "show up" other girls/women?!? Dang,I didn't get that memo.

I was unaware this was a must do. But I have noticed that certain females "dress up" or "get ready" before they go on cam LMFAO @ them. And no offense towards the above person, but the fact women do this screams insecurity issues!

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DreamLoverNYC

Joined: 10/1/2004

Reply to: I'll admit, when I get dressed up and either get on cam or go out, I'm looking ...
yea basically you are insecure and are showing it by doing those things.. just be you and stop misleading men. And the reason men respond to you that way is because most likely you were looking sleezy and like a cheap peace of ass to those lonely guys you were trying to tease. Who wouldnt do that? U reap what you sowe.

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notreally

Joined: 4/15/2005

Ok lets all get real. We all (men and women) must be visual creatures , why else would we be here. Just as many women here are so called perverts as men. If we didnt like to look we wouldnt be on a cam site. Everyone here is a grownup (hopefully) you know by what you wear what kinda comment you are going to get . And I have asked HUNDREDS of times if men type better topless cause 90% of the time , men have their shirts off while on cam. Everyones looking to have their ego stroked a little dont you think?

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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

Well personally I've never gotten dressed up to go on cam. If I'm dressed up on cam that means I had somewhere important to go.

And if I happen to be showing cleavage it's because I love my body more than any man ever could.

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DreamLoverNYC

Joined: 10/1/2004

Reply to: Well personally I've never gotten dressed up to go on cam. If I'm dressed up o...
so in that cam pic you have on the left did you have somewhere to go or did you just feel like lookin for attention?

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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

That's not even close to being dressed up. But it was summer and hot as fuck in my apartment.

I knew I looked cute in that outfit so I decided to take a pic. That's all it comes down to.

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pacificprincess

Joined: 1/4/2004

Girlies get dressed to impress other girlies, not in the sexual nature. Women will notice 99% of the time, men don't.

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*Sugah Sue*

Joined: 5/7/2008

Reply to: thats the fuck up shit about it, they spend so much time trying to outdo other ...
I wouldnt call it dressing up, its taking good care of yourself. Some women simply spend hours getting ready because they enjoy doing it and it makes them feel good. We like to be well groomed, it could be as simple as just getting a new hair cut and a new shirt. Guys get hair cuts and shave dont they, well women do to we jus have more to deal with and thats why it takes so long. But there is some truth in looking good for other ppl, im pretty sure u dont go out and buy a new shirt thinking " i wonder if the ladys will dig this" LOL

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A little less t...

Joined: 8/25/2008

NOT all women dress up for the cam or for guys on here, many take pride in their apperance, just as many males do. males get just as much attenchion. although many males don't see or feel that way. It would also depend on the type of comments you are making to them, Are they respectful or disrespectful??..
The women who get on cam busting out there twins because they feel that is what is inportant to a male and will get them attenchion they are lacking and insecure, I say the one's who do it deserve the disrespectful commets.. there is no reason a women has to bust out her twins or a male needs to take off his shirt ( includeing jacking off when they are on cam. YES there is a difference between being on cam n haveing big twins then being on cam busting them out showing all their clevage. if a man has to accept u because of the size of your twins they are not worth having in the first place. and YES there are many disrespectful males that see's a women on cam and buggs them to bust out their twins..those that do that deserve the respond from women.

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A little less t...

Joined: 8/25/2008

Reply to: thats the fuck up shit about it, they spend so much time trying to outdo other ...
The one's who do that are insecure!

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A little less t...

Joined: 8/25/2008

Reply to: I'll admit, when I get dressed up and either get on cam or go out, I'm looking ...
lmao >>The dating scene is a competition, you have to show you are the best in order to get the man you want.

And who told you this??? you need to be the person you really are instead of precieveing yourself to be someone or something you are not! that is what makes a male want you.......if they just want you for your outer shell your headed for alot of disapointments n hurt sweetie! you should not have to compete with anyone to be accepted!!!!!!!!!

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Irie96

Joined: 11/30/2008

Bump... Just bumping this thread above all of Apu's random crap:) Cheers!

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