Okay I am 34 y/o M. I just joined webdate. I am also finalizing a divorce. I want to know how I should approach a very attractive 22 fem that has been talking to me off and on at the bar and grill I visit.

She is not a staff member. She is a patron. She sees me every week and says hi. She knows my age and it not put off by it. How do I know if I should get that number? And should I keep the subject of my divorce on the DL?

Just be ur self an ya its good not to talk about ur divorce alot or ur ex, cuz it will give her the idea that ur still in love with ur ex

Thanks, I have heard that before. Fortunately I have not said any of that to her and now I will make sure she does not know until it is needed.

Never talk about ur ex alot until ur deeper in a relationship

Well that is good. See everytime that I talked to her I never metnioned the ex or my divorce. The only problem that I am having is getting past the hey, what's up thing.

I met her two months ago. Every Monday I am there and she shows up. She makes it a point to say hi. I told her that I would take her out to dinner at first (still working on the game, is like riding a bike though) she said that she was the type to just hang out.

I have yet to get her number though. I am good with talking, but right now when it comes to closing the deal I am still a little rough. Kinda like a wild animal that has been captured then is being released.

Haha.. sounds like she just wants to be friends an she's testin u to see wat ur up too

Ahh.... good call. That is what I was thinking. If she was really down, we might have got down already. Do you still think that I should ask for the number? Or should I play it cool?

Sure ask her, hell all she can do is say No

True!!!