I have heard before that quite a bit of women have a high pain tolerance when aroused. Won't say how I know, but I got it from an inside source. This true for a lot of women, or was this individual just a little more on the wild side? Please feel free to elaborate in great detail.

I don't know if arousal has anything to do with it...sometimes pain IS the instigator to arousal, or S&M would not have an "M"... I personally get very bored with slow/soft/love-making **rolls eyes**...so when you practice something of an aggressive style, you sort of have to have a certain ability to handle a couple of bruises here and there... I usually wear mine like badges of honor...or I use them to remind me of the fun and keep smiling for a few days after.

I have a fantasy to get man-handled before and during sex. Like role playing the intruder and helpless babysitter or something.


Haven't tried it yet. I'll let yall know if I end up kicking his ass. lol

Been there, done that. It's a total mindfuck. Mine was a rape fantasy...but the challenge was "you really would not be able to fight me off if it was real"...I decided to make it as real as I could...he worked up a real sweat and the truth is I only gave up because for a split second his covering of my face and my issues with suffocation turned into panic. I had to remind myself this was suppose to end in some mindblowing orgasm or I was gearing up to truly hurt him.

Panic & bad hidden away memories are real dangers when one engages in BDSM activities. It truly is not for the weak minded...I always see every experience as a total brain workout. You really do have to use it, you can't just go off with your hormonal/horny emotions.

My God Britt!!! Let me know if ya need a hand on that one. I mean.... I am a helpful kinda guy. Lol.

Wow... I can see how something like that could happen. It doesn't sound as hot as I thought it would be.

Sounds like you want to cut off my air flow and that's not going to happen damnit! lol


She really freaked me out... O_O

Yeah, that sounds kinda rough. In the end were you happy with it, or is that something that you would pass up on?

Nooooo.... I have done the chocking thing (mutually agreed) that was not the kind of pain that I was getting at. The rape story was a great contribution, but I talking about more of a rough sexual encounter. Like two people who are really attracted to eachother and just get a little carried away. Some scratching, grinding, maybe spanking, or a little rougher.

Ah..sorry, it was not my intention at all. Not all encounters have to happen the same way. There are rules, safe words and conversations. I didn't tell the guy that I have issues with suffocation, we just took on the challenge (never used safe words) but maybe this answers Bright's question...when aroused I can take more pain.

My rape fantasy was awesome! That split second comes off as much more in print...for me it was literally a split second...I would do it all over again. But my end result also told me that if I needed to fight back I could.

Sorry I am multi faceted...LOL! I usually try to take as much as I can out of an experience...if the mindblowing orgasm can also teach me something more about myself then I welcome it.

;( really sorry my description freaked you out...i must have come out really wrong...I was just trying to say...that world can be dangerous and all who engage in it are fully aware of it. To be honest, based on what you said you wanted...I doubt you would fight back...you would be "helpless"...I played the exact opposite but I do get into some rough shit...so it's not necessarily something you have to do in order to experience your fantasy.

My bad, some of us do that on a normal everyday basis, so pain and arousal has different levels for everybody. Your description is my norm...anything else and I am bored. So yeah for me rough is truly rough.

Maybe I should have eased you guys into it.

Sowie! ;(

Yeah, you are all good here. It was a little rougher than what I was going for, but none-the-less entertaining.

My fantasy WAS a little like this:

To be thrown into walls and have my clothes ripped off. A hand covering my mouth before the duct tape. And lips at my ear telling me if I made a sound he would kill me. Slapping my ass and vagina just to watch me squirm and pretend I didn't like it.

That kinda thing...

Holy crap I can't believe I said all that...Oh well lol

...and I was getting ready to go for a jog. Guess I will bring my Rotti. As for this topic, I just promised I would be nice. Damn, I could really add a ton here. " I keep trying to get out, but they keep pulling me back in!" GODFATHER III

By all means Staci. Enrich us.

What frightened me was how true it could be for me. I definitely need a few safe words lol

Britt - was I ever mean to you? If so I'm sorry. Can you leave your back door unlocked by accident and what color duck tape did you picture...?

Okay, I could work with that. That is more like what I was getting into.

Ha ha ha!!!! I can tell Britt gets down. I like it too.

Can I watch?

I was thinking more like rock, paper, scissors for it.

The classic gun metal grey should be fine. LOL!

Why?...I can share. In this case it would only be a visual, but hey I am ok with that!

Hold up Britt, Staci is hot, BUT I just think that I am a little bigger, not much. So I think that I would be a little better suited to assist you in such a fantasy. Lol.

LOL I wonder would it would be like to watch a bunch of strangers having sex right in front of you.

Would you be able to control the urge to get up and join.? Or could you wait to "get down" elsewhere?