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GrantYegge

Joined: 3/12/2009

Ok let me explain this.

This is my last year of high school.
There is this girl I really liked for a while and we both finally came out to tell eachother how we feel.
Alot of guys tried to have sex with her and she basically denied them all and is still a virgin.
The sex part isn't a big thing for me in this situation cuz I really like her.
She told me how she felt but she is playing hard to get really good.
We flirt alot but alot of the times she just looks like she gives no mind to me or just looks like she's waiting for me to go out there and get her.
We haven't kissed or anything yet but im really not trying to fuck anything up.
She doesn't carry out long convo's with text messaging like other girls.
Shes very different from everybody, but alot of the times my confidence goes down because I feel she doesn't really like me. Like im really confused for real. Another example, like usually if a girl likes you or whatever she would sit next to you at any occasion but she sits on the opposite side or next to her friend lol. Like these little things get to me and get me thinking. Sometimes I don't know if she wants me to leave her alone or if she wants me to chase her?
What is a girl's opinion on this?

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no one

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It sounds like she is shy. Take things slowly and just get to know her. Maybe once she is more comfortable with you the conversations will get longer and she will sit next to you more often.

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Etritonakin

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Not a girl here -thought I'd respond, anyway.
1st -this is your last year of HS. Do you know what either of you are going to do afterward? Asking for a kiss at a really romantic moment isn't a bad idea -maybe some hand-holding.... but the fact that she doesn't get too close doesn't mean she doesn't like you -she might not know it is expected -and some people are clingy all the time -some people aren't -nothing wrong with either -just different.
If you told each other how you feel, you really already "got" her -enjoy it.
You can ask her how she feels about your concerns if you want to -but you are wise not to pressure her -if you ask, ask -don't demand. This is a time for many decisions -will you even live near each other next year -or go to the same college?
Enjoy every minute you can with her -don't mess up a great time by worrying.
Maybe you spend the rest of your lives together -maybe you don't -but relax. Have fun!

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Kajunqueen

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You are WAY to young to worry about being with a girl!!

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GrantYegge

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If your not going answer the question then get the fuck out and post else where. I was asking a simple question no need for the fucking rude comments? haha. and I thought you were adults.

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Asgartha

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ok.... pretending that i didnt see the last stuff .... i ll try to answer...

1. You tell each other how you feel about each other and still you do nothing?

I mean after such a confession there HAS to be some action man!

2. You bet she's ignoring you.... SHe s thinking you re having second thoughts or you just tricked her into saying she likes you so you can play mr. important to your mates....

3. Even if all of the above wasnt happening, ignoring often mean try harder or come and get.... Whats wrong with all that hunter instict thing?

and 4. be respectfull and mature and do not use the f@@ck word against other people

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GrantYegge

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Look. Im just saying there is no need to be thrashing on me for no reason. When All I ask for is advice and thank you for the comment to the person above me.

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Etritonakin

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Thankfully, virginity among youths, teens and young adults is on the rise.

Unfortunately, much of what we are surrounded with depicts and promotes a sex-centered culture. Sex is crucial to man's survival -but it's not the only thing that is -and its proper use is crucial to man's happiness. It is only a part of life -it is not the meaning of life or the ultimate goal.

If she is a virgin and wants to remain so until marriage, respect that -if you don't, you will drive her away or she will do something she will regret -which will most likely ruin the relationship, anyway. She may have plenty of things she wants to accomplish before marriage, so you'd better be prepared to be creative in planning activities -be adventurous and interesting. Being romantic is not out of the question -but respect the boundaries and know that she might withdraw if she feels tempted.

It is not a popular idea, but refraining from sex until marriage would, in itself, solve quite a few of the world's problems.

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southernscion

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Reply to: Thankfully, virginity among youths, teens and young adults is on the rise. Un...
Sex is crucial to man's survival -but it's not the only thing that is -and its proper use is crucial to man's happiness. It is only a part of life -it is not the meaning of life or the ultimate goal..

Crap! I thought sex was the only thing in life ;)

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Asgartha

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Reply to: Thankfully, virginity among youths, teens and young adults is on the rise. Un...
Even if a couple of years ago i d consider this idea quite a conservative-religious one, i am starting to realise lately that there might be some point in that practice as well....


It is not a popular idea, but refraining from sex until marriage would, in itself, solve quite a few of the world's problems.


So even if i still believe we should celebrate our sexuality and not be ashamed of our bodies, i get to also think at times virginity wasnt such an awful period of my life either...

Hadnt it been for all that imposed pressure to "have he ultimate expirience this world has to offer" i would have still "kept my flower" probably...

Sadly, this is one thing you cant have second thought on.

i Dont believe in virginity till marriage , since i highly doubt i ll ever get married (because of my political views and the course of my life so far) .... but at least be virgins till someone that means something appears...


And as far are all those comments about the kids loosing their virginity early on these times, i seriously doubt that also...

I think lots of kids are virgins out there today... After all they might be having "sex" in WOW or LIneage, but surelly the re not having sex in real life any more....




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Etritonakin

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"Each year, almost 750,000 teenage women" (in the US) "aged 15–19 become pregnant. The teenage pregnancy rate in this country is at its lowest level in 30 years, down 36% since its peak in 1990. A growing body of research suggests that both increased abstinence and changes in contraceptive practice
are responsible for recent declines in teenage pregnancy."

"Teenagers seem to be waiting longer to have intercourse. For example, the percentage of 12th-grade U.S. students who REPORTED having had intercourse declined from 66.7% in 1991 to 60.5% in 2001.
Teens may be replacing intercourse with more alternatives they perceive as safer. For example more than 50% of U.S. teens ages 15 to 19 have engaged in oral sex. This number increases to almost 70% for those who are 18 and 19."

"When it comes to sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), the United States offers woefully inadequate education. The proof is in the fact that the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) reports that 19 million new STD infections occur every year. And, even more alarming, is that nearly 50 percent of these new cases happen to young people between the ages of 15 and 24."

That's 9.5 million teens/young adults getting STD's every year.

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mast2008

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Stupid teen drama mating rituals. Its disgusiting, grab a rag mag you little dork.

www.menarebettert hanwomen.com
www.nomarriage .com

1) Selfish - to the point where they don't know the difference between love of self and plain downright greed--and drilled into believing that whatever happens is the fault of whatever man is in their life because of the feminist crud drilled into them by the cadre of asexual closet cases called "therapists" who appear on "Ricki", "Oprah" or other such electronic drivel
2) Deluded - into thinking they "deserve" a rich, model-handsome husband who will "take them away from all of this"--whatever the "this" might be--and leading to resentment when they discover that the universe does NOT revolve around them
3) Angry - ALL the damn time about things which are so far out of their control as to be nonsensical--and constantly wanting to "discuss" this mind numbing drivel ad nauseam
4) Psychotic - multiple personalities in the same woman - as "Nomad" put it in the "Star Trek" episode: "Woman...a mass of inconsistencies...", and also when the feminist voices in their heads start with the regrets and victim acculturation
5) Worthless - anything that does not immediately resolve itself in her favor or to her benefit is meaningless to her, especially husband and family
6) Lazy - drilled into their head that they "deserve" a maid, nanny and personal slave to take care of every detail - and that their husband/boyfriend is REQUIRED to cater to their each and every mindless whim
7) Resentful - especially of other women who have things that they do not, in material, spiritual and esoteric senses
8) Greedy - to them, "housekeeping" means getting the house in the divorce (thanks to Zsa Zsa for that immortal line) and sucking the guy for every last cent, even if they had nothing to do with the building of the nest egg
9) Mindless - constant, irritating, idle prattle about topics they read about in some women's magazine and then become instant experts--particularly pop psychology and the latest crap they see on "Oprah" or "Ricki"
10) Vain - believing that they are irresistible to everything in pants and therefore are allowed to behave sluttish and without any honor.

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mast2008

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Reply to: I really think you got it all wrong Mast ... this is how it REALLY is! 1) Self...
You UNoriginal, plagerist fucktard, all you did was post my paragraphs about fucking females. You're a pathetic fucking loser, emasculated fucking pussy. I would love to punch you old bald ass right in the mouth, wake you up a bit. It's pussywhipped fucks like you that let fucking females keep getting away with more and more. Pretty soon, they'll want to do a makeover on you, and feminize your sorry fucking ass and make you their bitches. Stupid fucker wake up, and grow some hair.

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Speaking as a real woman, men don't LET me do anything. I do what I want when I want.


I'll never ask a man's permission for anything.

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LiveToLove

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Reply to: You UNoriginal, plagerist fucktard, all you did was post my paragraphs about fu...
What's the matter mast? Is the truth sinking into that tiny brain of yours? Tell me that the opposite of what you copied and pasted here (they were NOT your words) is not the truth.

The word you're looking for is "plagiarist" learn to spell if you want to join in an intelligent conversation. Again with the third grade threats. When you encounter the truth the only reaction you can come up with is to threaten violence. Just proves in the area of mental awareness I have it and you don't. Now go sit in the corner and masturbate, that is if you can find your dick.

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mast2008

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Reply to: What's the matter mast? Is the truth sinking into that tiny brain of yours? T...
emasculate fat fuck LOL all you can do is:

1. like a stupd cunt female, focus on typos
2. Beg to lick the boots of femiwhores on here, (Devilbitch for one)
3. You WISH you were young like me and could get all the CUNT you want and walk way laughing, fat ass HAHAHAH

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so you DID read the site, stupid fuck HAHAHAH knew you would
LOL

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