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sundrop68

Joined: 7/24/2008

I allready know most of you are going to say , off! WHY WHY WHY!

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cutiepie007

Joined: 3/25/2009

Exactly!!!!!!!!! How am I supposed to see that gorgeous face of yours? ;)

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What Sanity

Joined: 5/9/2009

If i'm having sex with someone, obviously they know what i look like. At that point there is nothing to hide. So on or off. Depends on the sex i suppose.

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Muted

Joined: 5/13/2009

Random kinky bar sex?

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Kajunqueen

Joined: 11/29/2008

Both ways have thier ups and downs...(LMAO...ups and downs)

With the lights on,the guy is more visually turned on,but with the lights off,some women get wilder.I believe alot of women want the lights off because they are self conscience of thier bodies not being perfect.

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What Sanity

Joined: 5/9/2009

Kinky bar sex? Like an S&M club?

I am pretty sure light's off is nice when there are candles. Who the fuck would light candles then turn on the lights. Way to ruin the moment! It can intimate either way. Off just means you like guessing what body part your stroking.

Thigh? Stomach? Breast? Fuck turn the lights back on.

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Muted

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Who the fuck cares? Leave 'em off! :(

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What Sanity

Joined: 5/9/2009

*shrugs*

Either or! Or right now none.

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Muted

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With you? On... for sure <3

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What Sanity

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I scare myself when i leave them on.

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Muted

Joined: 5/13/2009

For reals? Why?

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What Sanity

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I was totally kidding.

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Muted

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Ohhhhhh <3

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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

Neither. I like having sex in broad daylight!


but when I was with my ex we always had sex in his basement with the lights off, but we had the glow of the fish tank which made it totally awesome.

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LiveToLove

Joined: 1/12/2009

When I'm in the "zone" I'm not thinking about lights. On or off, makes no difference to me.

Now if I were to set the scene before getting into the "zone" it would be candles or a fire in the fireplace. Add in some "mood" sounds, like waves crashing on the shore, or a thunder storm with rain .... ahhhhh yesssssssssss.

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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

Oh god yes. Add thunder and I'm ready to GO!

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avgjoe0266

Joined: 7/16/2008

I prefer some form of light. men are visual creatures, the better I see, the more I get turned on.

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Thunderdog

Joined: 3/14/2009

I really don't care as long as we care for each other, my partner is female, and there is sex.

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What Sanity

Joined: 5/9/2009

Having sex under a black light is an odd thing to do.

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clayface2009

Joined: 5/8/2009

I'd love sex in candle light. Totally sexy. Hell I'd even wear a blindfold to enhance the feeling :)

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sundrop68

Joined: 7/24/2008

Reply to: When I'm in the "zone" I'm not thinking about lights. On or off, makes no diff...
Yeah! Old school player? lol

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Muted

Joined: 5/13/2009

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I know why too... It's really obvious LOL

Fuck fireplaces, that'd just be hot.. I hate the heat. Pisses me off.
Candlelight? Might as well have no lights at all, and I don't see how that'd get you a boner.

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SteveNParkville

Joined: 1/7/2009

I prefer On myself, feel like something is missing when they are off .... that being said, if it makes my partner more comfortable initially to have lights off then thats ok. Candles are really really nice, they add a romantic element.

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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

i love candles and soft music

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peggyp

Joined: 11/29/2008

Lights on. He likes to see what's happening, and I like to show him.

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