I have noticed, since I've been dating again: why is it the first two weeks of dating a new woman do they ALL tell me what they think I wana hear? ? Its like I waste two weeks waiting to know what she really thinks, feels and who they truly are... I am who I am, because if they fall for a lie, where can it go from there? other than down.

That's probably cause most all guys learn a one act play and spend their time telling the gal what they think she wants to hear. When they finish that act and have nothing else to offer, she lays it out to them. "What goes around comes around."

Because there is a school of thought out there that claims being on your "best behavior" at first is the best way to go.

Because women like me who are exactly what they say they are and don't believe in wasting time talking about the fucking weather but believe in hitting all the taboo subjects as soon as possible are deemed too intense and not fun and scare men away.

Because there would be no reason for divorce if you didn't get a chance to find out how she changed AFTER you married her.