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100 percent

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When does a woman have too many male friends? are the standbys? just in casers?

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cutiepie007

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What is wrong with having lots of guy friends? As long as you don't fuck them, they will remain friends.

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100 percent

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Reply to: What is wrong with having lots of guy friends? As long as you don't fuck them, ...
even if they're calling and texting her late at night?

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cutiepie007

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Reply to: even if they're calling and texting her late at night?
Then you have not set enough boundaries or she doesn't respect you enough or she is shagging her friends.......be vigilant or simply ask.

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rocioggnb

Joined: 7/30/2008

When does a woman have too many male friends? are the standbys? just in casers?
How many are too many to you?
Ask her what's the deal with her friends.
I agree with maddie, you need to set boundaries, once in a relationship, you should always be considerate with your mate.

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droptines68

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It may not even be her, women having guy friends is a fucking myth! All guys want to fuck all the female friends they have. The next time your out with a guy "friend" and you look at him, know he is like a wolf on the hunt and wants that ass. In his eyes your friends hoping for benefits.

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cutiepie007

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Not all men want to fuck their friends...I have had many guy friends and most of them didn't want to fuck me. Some did try, but that spelt the end of the friendship - I found that disrespectful and only fell for that once, learnt my lesson and didn't ever do it again and lost a friend in the process.........It is just NOT worth it!

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droptines68

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The ones who did'nt try, still wanted too reeeeaaaalllll bad! Why are women so blind to this?

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cutiepie007

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Naaaaaaa! Not all men are like that! I have slept in the same bed (twice actually)as my very good friend and we snuggled up and he didn't try a single thing with me - out of respect. Some men actually respect their 'girl' friends as they see that they are not interested. Then again I had two guy friends of mine come onto me at the same time and wanted a threesome - I was FURIOUS!!!!! I felt totally violated......that trust that one has between friends died right there - along with the friendship and they were like brothers to me. I was SOOOOOOOOOOO disappointed! Some chicks, I am sure are into the whole no strings attached shagging, but there is always one who ends up developing feelings and expectations and the other doesn't want this and THAT ends up being the deal breaker! In the end you lose a lover and a friend. It is just NOT worth it!

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happy_feet

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That is one of the most ridiculous things I've ever heard. One of my best friends is a guy, we've been friends for over 10 years. He has been a support through the tough times and heartbreaks - and I don't mean physically. We have never had a romantic relationship and no he is not gay, in fact he will be getting married in November.

Not all men think with their little heads, and mature men can control themselves! The only men who can't are peadophiles and rapists. I think your statements are more a testament to the way your mind works than proof to the contrary. I would have thought we had moved beyond the caveman image on this one.

'100percent' I agree 100% with maddie on this one...(yeah, yeah, we've had our run ins) but you really should approach your girl directly and tell her how you feel about it. I personally don't believe in ultimatums though, and would never give up a 10 year friendship for some jealous guy I haven't known long (don't know what your situation is though).

I do think that the girl in the situation has all the power - she can choose to be flirtatious with other guys for an ego boost or just be a friend. The way a girl chooses to act quickly weeds out those that are just hanging around for scraps from those who genuinely want to be friends.

G'luck 100percent hope it goes well for you.

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Gaia78

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Is that just you? How do you know that ALL men want that? Isn't that just generalizing? Is this what guys talk about at their waxing sessions and tea time? LOL!

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mzztatt

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just because you want to fuck all your female friends doesnt mean that ALL men are the same as you.

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crystal20

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100 percent, and what the hell does "casers" mean????

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mzztatt

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Reply to: 100 percent, and what the hell does "casers" mean????
he meant " just in case -ers" as in stand by's...same difference

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sherlock101

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Reply to: he meant " just in case -ers" as in stand by's...same difference
Much experience here on this subject. It's ok for both sexes to have friends not the same sex. You just have to know that every misunderstanding, fight you have with your SO will be not too fairly judged by their friends. It's only natural and especially when they only hear one side of the story. On top of that if you have a lot of friends of the opposit sex then you can be assured some are vultures just waiting for their chance.

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thebetty

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I have pleanty of guy friends and thats all they are. I know it can make some men uncomfortable. It can also make some women uncomfortable if a guy has too many female friends. Some women do use them as a "Plan B" which I find sad. It really is about the person in perticular not the gender itself

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GreenEyedGuy23

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I know that personally, I have 1 female friend that I have not slept with, she is a lesbian and we dated before she was that way. I have to agree, their is always that I wonder what it would be like thought in a guy's head even if he would never admit it. Doesn't mean most of us act on it, but it is there and if she is at a weak point you see it all the time. Good friend helps her out and things happen.

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cutiepie007

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It all makes complete sense now!!!! YUCK!!!! Some men are absolutely disgusting!

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am not here

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and not all guys think like that, but most of us usually do about most females but not all of them

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