Ladies. I recently met a friend who is also a widow like myself. I understand she is very confused and lonely right now and is not ready for a serious relationship. Right now I am just a friend who understands what she is going through (I get calls late at night when she goes through a melt down. I don't mind I am her friend). The part I am confused about is her flirting (calling me babe, hansome). The other night we were listening to a band and took a break and went outside for some air. As we were sitting there talking, she was talking putting her hands on me (casually) then she is inches from my face and asks me if her lipstick is ok. First I would never take advantage of her. Second I want to see if there is a posibility of a relationship other then friends. Third I don't want to ruin the friendship. Help me understand thanks.