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niceguy67

Joined: 8/7/2013

Hi. I've been trying for a month now to connect with someone in my area. I send out messages, try to say all the right things, do all I can to present myself in the best light and...nothing. Not one response. Not one date. Not one anything. What's wrong with me? What am I doing wrong? Am I an ugly or undesirable person? I'm just really tired of being alone, and even more tired of no one having any interest. Am I just wasting my time, even trying to meet someone? Should I just accept that being alone is as good as it gets for the rest of my life? I'm asking for an objective, honest opinion from any woman reading this. I'm not trying to get a shortcut to a response here. What I want is a woman's honest opinion. Please check out my profile, and give me your most blunt, direct and honest opinion. And don't worry about hurting my feelings. I'd rather have the unpleasant truth then a nice lie. If anyone can give me an assist here, I'd be grateful.
Thanks.

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Posted 4 years ago
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Britishguy4U

Joined: 12/22/2013

Hi niceguy,
I am not a woman but know how most of them think. First off, change your screen name, women don't want a nice guy, they claim they do, but deep down they are attracted to alpha males. Nice guys always come last.
You mentioned in your profile that you are geeky, another turn off for so many women. As regards to your looks, you are not a bad looking guy, but some women do not like beards, glasses etc.
Here is my tow cents worth, don't show or tell them your weaknesses, show your strengths. Good luck my friend, take a look at my profile if you like, . Okay I may have the upper hand on you, American women love British accents and I use that to my advantage. I am older than you, have less hair, wear glasses, skinny as a rake some women don't like slim or skinny men, but I have dated and slept with so many hot women, American, Spanish and British.

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BestDancer

Joined: 4/23/2014

If you are using only this site, that is the problem. I have posted my profile and sent messages - zero, zilch, nada. On other sites I am bombarded by messages, etc. Mostly they live in California, New York, or further from me. It is okay, I enjoy the forums sometimes.

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BestDancer

Joined: 4/23/2014

Just a second thought I failed to mention. The women in my area on this site are just too fat for my liking. If a woman does not care enough about herself to take care of herself and live a healthy lifestyle - I do not want them in my life.

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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

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