Ok girls dont know what to say to this guy He really likes me alot we had a great time spending the whole day with each other yesterday.I met him off here of course he didn't have a picture so I was kinda skeptical but we did webcam chat and put that uncomfortable thought to rest.

Hes a very attractive man 32 establish, Italian,tall built right ,had no extra material waste,Isn't married and openminded.

He was fluster how good the day was with each other he actual brought me home to his condo in New York City. We was just talking opening up and relaxing after our long day of outdoor activities without bring up no sexual talk which I was alittle surprise by that, but then again this could all be a game just to win me over.I just got back home to my place from spending the whole night at his condo. When I woke up he wasn't there I had breakfast near the bed and a note also a gift I didn't open yet. I found it really unusual for a him to leave me at this expensive condo with all these valuable items laying around was it a sign of trust? hmmmm



Well I got back to my apartment 4hours ago got this very lovely text message from him saying Quote (I really like you all Ive been thinking about was you today at work I know I sound cheesy but thats just how I feel and I hope we can continue which each other beautiful seen you very soon)

My question is what should I do with this guy Im thinking to myself is he moving to fast with me or what he was saying yesterday was actually really true
from the heart. I just dont trust men at all and im just trying to lead myself in the right direction


Ps I need advice from girls that are wise and actually know what they are talking about thanks

have you told him you are transgender yet?

have you told him you are transgender yet?

Yes he know im intersex female we met on this site he doesn't have a problem with it

Considering you are "intersex", what did you two do all night? Since YOU stayed with HIM, I wonder why you think HE is moving too fast! Were your vocal cords damaged so that you could not say "Wait!" You certainly were not so fearful of men that you refused anything he offered.

I must have really hurt your feeling becuase I told the truth about you.You are following me to another post? its really sad..I cant say get a life to you becuase you clearly are at the end of yours.. dry up unattractive and lonely


Girls this old boy is a stalker lol this post isn't about you I need advice from my ladies not a dry up raisin that sits on his cpu all day stalking females with his online friends You must be really mad that I get attention and you are all lonely. Just give up and go on with your sad little life you have left and make the best of it )

Ps I'm not going to entertain your lonely pathetic self anymore becuase you want my attention and im just going to ignore you let you make a ass of yourself)

Kisses )

I don't think he is moving too fast. Try and relax....I tend to overthink alot of things myself which I think causes me to miss out on alot of wonderful things! Relax...enjoy yourself, what do you have to lose? He was only showing that he is still interested after meeting with you. So have fun!

Thank you girl your right ....I am over thinking it
Its Just that I haven't been with a guy since my last longstrem relationship, now this could be another one and my last hopefully wish me luck )

My advice is take it slow and easy and things will fall in place

I wish the best of luck

If you feel its to fast, slow it down. Remember people tell you what they think you want to hear. Dont lie to him just take your time. People do show you who they really are. We all start off being sweet and kind, and if there is physical attraction then it gets harder. Use that internal instint God gave you! do what you feel and know is right. Hey So far All I've seen on her are Fat, out of shape men! with too much facial hair! Gross! Good luck to you.

You don't need advice, you need help. You said you "don't trust guys at all" yet you spend the night at his place. WTF