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crystal20

Joined: 6/8/2009

Ok, I just love how people think they are the besting "looking" things around.
Looks will eventually fade away. I rather be: a Intelligent woman; Instead of a drop dead dumbass(Gorgeous)girl. Life will not last forever. Remember that. You will be 30, 40, and then 50. Time moves on fast.

Do you wanna be remembered for the good looking woman or the smart young lady who made a change In everyones lives? When you flaunt ur shit out like you're better then everyone, and then that just shows how less of a human being you are. You have problems just like the rest of us.

Noone can be perfect. You might be at you're best phsically; but not Mentally. Why pick on people for their looks, age, etc. Don't get me wrong, I have done It multiple of times. Enough Is a enough though. Who am I to judge you? It makes me pathetic. Cuz I tell ya, nobody, NOBODY, I do not give a rats ass who you are; are not perfect. Everyone is far off from perfection. God mades us into different Indiviuals, some of us might me heavy set, skinny, wears glasses, or whatever. We are all still human beings, each, everyone of us has a right here on this earth. Happiness should not only be based on looks, but other qualities also. I am most certainly a different breed from those "Paris Hilton girls", yeah I label them. I don't use men for money, I'm happy with myself. I don't make thousands of dollars a month off my mommy and daddy, I can't afford Gucci. I'm happy with my bags from walmart. I'm a home grown country girl, If I ever won millions, I will still live the same lifestyle as I do now. I'm happy with my life. I don't need anyones approval for who I am as a person.












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+Revolucciona+

Joined: 7/4/2009

So, why not be a great looking person with a great personality? It's not like you have to trade off one for the other.....
Good post though...I know what you mean...I fucking hate barbies that sit there n look purdy.

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jem1987

Joined: 7/20/2007

Why are you announcing publicly that you don't need anyone's approval? Somewhat of an oxymoron.

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crystal20

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Reply to: Why are you announcing publicly that you don't need anyone's approval? Somewha...
I was just writing.

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crystal20

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Reply to: So, why not be a great looking person with a great personality? It's not like ...
Yeah you can be both.

I am just talking about girls who think they look and are better then everyone else.

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crystal20

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Reply to: Why are you announcing publicly that you don't need anyone's approval? Somewha...
I don't care what you think.

This is a THREAD jem.

Have a nice day.=)

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notreally

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Crystal You figured out quite young what it took me years to grasp. Be happy with who you are. Looks are an accident of birth, personality and charm are cultivated. Be a nice person and you are soooo much more attractive than a beautiful woman whos ugly inside. Not everyone likes the same thing when it comes to looks either. Some men prefer curvy women. Just be true to yourself and the rest will fall into place.

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*Sliver!*

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No getting snarky with jem. That's my sister.

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mzztatt

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Reply to: Crystal You figured out quite young what it took me years to grasp. Be happy w...
so true. like that old saying..."beauty is in the eye of the beholder" That applies to inner beauty as well as outer beauty. Having a great personality and character makes you far more beautiful a person than someone who has only outer beauty. Society puts way to much value on outer beauty and to little on inner beauty which is sad. Outer beauty fades, inner beauty is for a lifetime.

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crystal20

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Reply to: No getting snarky with jem. That's my sister.
Okay! Sorry. Jem, I'm sorry.

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lifeofscience

Joined: 3/24/2009

Reply to: No getting snarky with jem. That's my sister.
No offense DB, I like you, but nobody gives a flying fuck if that's your sister. If she get's on here spewing stupid shit(not saying she is), then she's going to get the same treatment as everybody else. She needs to earn the respect of others by her actions, not because of relations with somebody else.

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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

Who asked you?



I was kidding anyway, but don't be giving me any lip. I'm the last person who tolerates it. You all know that by now.

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lifeofscience

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Reply to: Who asked you? I was kidding anyway, but don't be giving me any lip. I'm t...
Nobody asked me, but I don't need an invitation when it looks, to me, like someone is being bullied and I feel like jumping in to defend. Crystal obviously didn't see the sarcasm and neither did I. I suggest we not let this misunderstanding go any further.

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jem1987

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No need to apologize to me, you didn't really say anything bad. I'm fully aware this is a thread, which would be why I responded. I'm just saying that when someone needs to announce to random strangers that they don't care what people think of them, it just makes them seem like they are looking for validation. Whether that's true or not, who knows, but that's how it looks.

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crystal20

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Reply to: Nobody asked me, but I don't need an invitation when it looks, to me, like some...
I honestly do not care what that girl thinks of me. (Jem) Everyone is entitled to an opinion. Thank you for sticking up for me though. :)

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*Sliver!*

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Then don't annoy me and it won't.

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jem1987

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If you don't care, then why do you keep mentioning it? Besides, I never actually said anything bad about you.

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crystal20

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Reply to: If you don't care, then why do you keep mentioning it? Besides, I never actual...
Um, okay! Once again, I was not talking to you. Damn!

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jem1987

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Not sure it could be again since this was the first time you said it. But in any case, this is a thread, like you said yourself. You're speaking to everyone. Why are you getting pissy? I don't see a reason to. Like I said, I never said anything bad about you. Actually, no one has on this page. So what's the point?

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cutiepie007

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Everybody is entitled to air their points of view and start a thread about something that is on their mind. Crystal started a thread about looks not being everything - not to get attention, but rather to make a statement about what she thinks and feels.......either you can agree with what she is saying or disagree with what she is saying, but she was most certainly not looking to attack anyone by airing her views nor being attacked. Let her just simply be! Why does EVERY SINGLE THREAD have to turn into such a palaver?

Crystal: To contribute to your thread - I absolutely agree with you and would like to add that the only beauty that really, really matters is the one of the soul. I do think though that it IS possible for people to be beautiful externally and internally simultaneously, which is an enormous blessing. Every single human being is special and beautiful in their own unique way and what we should do to show our own beauty, is build others up and make them shine. Call it a 'Pay it forward' if you wish, and you in turn will receive the same courtesy.....if you don't, you move along and concentrate your energy on those that do. I think that imperfections are what makes a person more unique and special and what is the measure of 'ugly' and 'beautiful' anyway? It is all a personal perception. Love life and be happy and surround yourself with people that are all sparkly, beautiful and happy and avoid the negative ones.........:) Quite simple :)

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jem1987

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Well I never said she was trying to get attention, I clearly said that's just how it looks. And why does every thread have to turn into a palaver? Simply because people want to separate who they think should be allowed to voice their opinion, and who they think shouldn't. You're saying she can state what she thinks, then have a problem with me stating mine? I also don't see anyone attacking anyone. As I've said 3 times, I never said anything bad about her. In fact, I think I was the only person not swearing or attacking. Even Crystal was being more rude than I was. So why am I the one you chose to single out? I don't really care, truthfully. But if you think her opinion should be respected, then shouldn't mine be too?

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cutiepie007

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Reply to: Well I never said she was trying to get attention, I clearly said that's just h...
Who, for the record said I was referring to you or singled you out? Was your name mentioned? I don't have a problem with a person voicing their opinion, but do have a problem with their tone that they do it with. She started a simple thread and would like some simple contributions, not comments about what an attention seeker she is..........how is that positive or a contribution? EVERY person should be respected - THAT is my point. Not only YOU! Not only ME, not only HER! EVERYONE! THAT is why I posted what I did. Telling someone that they are looking for attention is hardly very nice! Surely you know that? Or are YOU only entitled to YOUR opinions and not her? You could have just either said: I agree OR I DO NOT agree instead of saying she is just looking for attention.......THAT is NOT an opinion, but an attack. People know the difference in between, which is why it then becomes a palaver, or in this case, risks becoming one - I am just trying to buffer the situation before that happens.....make any sense at all? I am NOT attacking you! I am NOT judging you! I am merely pointing out that if you don't have something good to say.......

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jem1987

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So... we can either agree or disagree. Sorry, but I don't put limitations on my opinions.

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cutiepie007

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People can ABSOLUTELY agree and disagree! We are human and individuals, but there is a certain amount of tact that should be exercised or risk the situation getting out of hand and becoming a huge argument. It is just NOT worth it! Trust me! Shit on this site tends to get WAY out of hand or people just antagonise the shit out of others until it becomes a full scale war - just NOT worth it! The sad thing, it is usually over something VERY fickle - like calling another person an attention seeker for example....

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jem1987

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Well, if you had actually read what i said, you would see that I never called her an attention seeker. I said that whether it's true or not, that's how it looks. But, in any case, you're right, things on this site get out of hand. Which is why I don't come into the forums much. But I don't see me being the one causing problems in this thread. I mean, I even told Crystal that she didn't need to apologize to me, because I don't think she said anything so bad. Yet people are still complaining? I'm sorry you don't like my opinion, but that's your problem, not mine.

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