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lianapet

Joined: 12/5/2004

Hey guys!
I need you!

I am 39 today and feeling crappy about it. Can you please share your feelings when you turned 39 and preferably the reality after? Please tell me there is more to look forward to.

I sort of decided not to really acknowledge it and starting next year to go backwards...so next year I am celebrating my 38th birthday...and by the time I am 80 I should be 1 again! Oh if only....

I REFUSE TO TURN 40 DARN IT!!!!

:o{

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tnk7

Joined: 11/16/2009

first of all happy birthday, and when you say is there more to look foward to i think there is a lot , maybe you have not done most of the things you wanted to do before turning 39 but you should not be discourage by that at all and keep on doing the things you had planned to accomplish age is a number and nobody should feel bad by turning 40, i am going to be that age in august i feel very pleased with all my accomplishments and i will keep on doing the things that make me happy .

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lianapet

Joined: 12/5/2004

Reply to: first of all happy birthday, and when you say is there more to look foward to ...
Thank you.

Maybe I would feel the same as you if I was as accomplished. I am happy for you, good to know it is possible to accomplish your goals. I have yet to experience that fulfilment. Maybe by the time I am 35 again?

Thank you for responding.

;)

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Steven123

Joined: 7/19/2008

Reply to: Thank you. Maybe I would feel the same as you if I was as accomplished. I am ...
I feel the same way but I'm a few years younger. I'm going to be 27
And 30 is right around the corner. I still feel like a kid though. Scary when you're gettin to that close
To that next digit in you're age

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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

if you don't have a birthday.......the alternative sucks.

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Elijah Murray

Joined: 7/19/2008

HAPPY B DAY AND YOU HAVE ALL OF MY SUPPORT :DDDDD

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lianapet

Joined: 12/5/2004

Reply to: I feel the same way but I'm a few years younger. I'm going to be 27 And 30 is r...
Wanna switch places?? :)

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lianapet

Joined: 12/5/2004

Reply to: if you don't have a birthday.......the alternative sucks.
Funny you should say that...my left arm was hurting this morning and I thought I was having a heart attack. I was at peace with that. Calm, relieved...but I guess only the good die young!

Alive I feel old, dead I would be young.....hmmmmm......Joking.< br>
LOL!

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lianapet

Joined: 12/5/2004

Reply to: HAPPY B DAY AND YOU HAVE ALL OF MY SUPPORT :DDDDD
Thank you very much Elijah...you're sweet.

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havoc168

Joined: 12/13/2003

Happy Birthday!

When I turned 39 I realized with shock and horror that I had wasted my life. I should of just went with the dream of be coming a world class trophy moose hunter. Life would of been so much easier.

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JimMiller

Joined: 11/25/2011

lianapet, we need you too! You do so much for webdate by all the efforts you make to tell the truth and to be gentle with others who honestly seek the truth. And, you are just and fair in being critical of others who are not so pure in intent. This place would be dead without you.

Now, having said all that positive stuff, ;-) I confess that I am much older than you and have lived for many years with the illusion of youth. I have not let age stand in the way of any ideas (you know that!) regardless of their reality or not. Truly, I'm as old as I feel - and the same shall be true for you. So, stay off the AMA medications & other poisonous substances, get laid as often as possible, and rejoice that you are walking your talk. True, you've picked a unique path to travel and it's not a perfect one BUT how you deal with each day affects how many more days you have to "handle".

Be well and know that you are very much appreciated by many.

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lianapet

Joined: 12/5/2004

Reply to: Happy Birthday! When I turned 39 I realized with shock and horror that I had w...
Thank you thank you!! I feel like I have wasted my life too...but I am sort of hopeless about it.

Moose hunter? really?

LOL!
;)

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lianapet

Joined: 12/5/2004

Reply to: lianapet, we need you too! You do so much for webdate by all the efforts you m...
I doubt your feelings are shared by too many...but thank you. I am far from perfect, you know that. I have always been an old soul, I didn't figure I would feel old I figured I would finally feel like myself, but too little got accomplished so my mom is calling it a mid-life crisis...that would mean I have to live to 80!!! Oh boy, God help us all if I live that long with the attitude I have...lol! Maybe I will calm down as I get older...at what age do I stop giving a damn about the world? Somehow I think I would be happier if I didn't spend so many hours driving myself crazy with the impossible idealist point of view.

Thank you again.

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ghostcat85255

Joined: 10/15/2010

Reply to: I doubt your feelings are shared by too many...but thank you. I am far from pe...
Happy Birthday

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JimMiller

Joined: 11/25/2011

Reply to: I doubt your feelings are shared by too many...but thank you. I am far from pe...
I concur with your "old soul" diagnosis. Your wisdom has nothing to do with 39 years of being crapped on, although some lessons ARE learned that way, ha ha. I was much worse 20 years ago than today, so perhaps you, too, will mellow and stay away from all the windmills. No longer do I stick my fingers in every light socket just to see if the power is there. Still, there's times I throw caution and reason to the wind and just go for it - and, sometimes it was worth it. Usually, you will catch me at it. :-) As to the volume of admirers you have here, I say "who cares?" You are well defined and that is like a red flag to a bull - mediocrity thrives everywhere & desires to snuff out anything else. Remember, it's not OK to be not OK - our national anthem. -)

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lianapet

Joined: 12/5/2004

Reply to: Happy Birthday
Thanks Dark...

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lianapet

Joined: 12/5/2004

Reply to: I concur with your "old soul" diagnosis. Your wisdom has nothing to do with 39...
I am actually pretty mediocre....but thank you again.

You're very nice to me, considering I "catch you at it.." ;)

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JimMiller

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Reply to: I am actually pretty mediocre....but thank you again. You're very nice to me,...
I am actually pretty mediocre....but thank you again. You're very nice to me, considering I "catch you at it.." ;)
Oh, bullshit.

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lianapet

Joined: 12/5/2004

Reply to: Oh, bullshit.
Oh hell, if it's got to be shit, might as well be bull shit....I prefer elephant shit, I think it would make more of a statement, but it doesn't roll off the tongue as smoothly as saying "bullshit"....LMAO!!!!

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JimMiller

Joined: 11/25/2011

Reply to: Oh hell, if it's got to be shit, might as well be bull shit....I prefer elephan...
So funny. Guess we can agree that shit is not just shit - there are varieties. Elephants really do make one hell of a statement, though. :-)

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Elijah Murray

Joined: 7/19/2008

You're welcome :D

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Shott

Joined: 6/5/2011

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Eligahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh h

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up4you-anytime

Joined: 3/19/2014

lol... I know the feeling... but as they say, it's only a number... as long as you're out to have fun and a laugh you'll be fine... trust me... I'll get you a drink if you're out and about xxx

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patriotic man

Joined: 9/30/2010

Reply to: lol... I know the feeling... but as they say, it's only a number... as long as ...
Greeting to Lianapet.

Have my compliments and greetings.

I have to say hi dear.


Thanks,
Patriotic man (Ex. Sollaska)

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