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Gemini1969

Joined: 3/9/2011

I have several questions. I am bi-sexual and my last relationship with a women wasn't so great, therefore, I thought I just might sway the other way and test waters. In the last two weeks the four men that I was around just continued to persue me in what I believe is disrespecful. I'm responded politly to stop and not to say those things etc. and they kept on. It must be me? Four guys all acting in the same way? Such a turn-off. Oh and another thing, they all bragged about themselves. What the heck?

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ghostcat85255

Joined: 10/15/2010

some men are like that and some are not

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River43

Joined: 5/12/2009

remember where you are, this is the internet. an open forum for ppl to be assholes if they so choose. to say things they would naver say to your face. many times just for shock value or to satisfy a desire to talk dirty to a woman.

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ghostcat85255

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true if they did they probably get a fist in their face

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Gemini1969

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River43

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Reply to: Well, I didn't meet them on the internet. They were in my face, in my home. Aqu...
It only goes to show that the world is full of assholes,,,and looks like you just happen to get four of em together. Its not you,,,its their disrespect and inflated egos. Friends would never act like that.

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Gemini1969

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Thanks.

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cocoahoneebee

Joined: 3/6/2011

Don't take it personally. I seem to run into more of the same whether it be online or in person. Sadly, we just have to weed through all the crap to find the jewels. And it's the same for the men as well. I don't know why it's so hard for all of us good ones to connect with other good ones and just leave those assholes to mingle with themselves! Maybe it's because the good ones are reluctant to approach us because they've had a bad experience just like us.

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Xander Caine

Joined: 6/14/2008

Your just not hitting up the right guys... :)

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francis234

Joined: 1/7/2011

Reply to: Your just not hitting up the right guys... :)
True

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tochangani

Joined: 4/21/2011

Dear freind , I am interested in this subject too.
i would like to discuss more about this subject with you.
(Tochangani@yahoo.com)

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ghostcat85255

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oh get A life

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tochangani

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Dear freind , I am interested in this subject too.
i would like to discuss more about this subject with you.
(Tochangani@yahoo.com)

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Carrie Bradshaw

Joined: 4/1/2011


I think that the respectable ppl are not as aggressive... they wait for someone to speak to them first.... this being the case, we dont usually notice them.. we are more often drawn to the loud and charismatic person in the room... which usually (not always)turns out to be the person with selfish motives...
at the same time the quiet types may not respond even when approached... they have thier guard up in defense of hazadous encounters ... you may have to approach them more than once and in a way thar doesn't make them feel u r a potential threat... these are the ppl you can trust with your heart...so its important that u dont abuse the priviledge when they begin to allow you into thier world. Once you hurt them ... its hard to bond with them again.

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jimd1968

Joined: 5/8/2011

those four men werent looking for a relationship, just a booty call. It is disrespectful i know. There are sooo many men like that. Find someone you can relate to, someone that respects you and accepts you as you are. Someone that accepts that you are different, unique. Too many times we find ourselves treating our mate as an object, a possession even. Thats wrong. We each have our own individual wants and needs.

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ghostcat85255

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yeah some men are like that

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ScottFo

Joined: 6/21/2011

I think you just got unlucky, it might have been a full moon or something

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ensygnia

Joined: 6/1/2011

I have been on this site for a year off and on , its very difficult to get a women attention without using body language and direct verbal communication. I'm one of the guys who sends a wick or adds you to my favorites then sends a message with the words hi. The guys that have left you messages like nice tits have put the gentlemen in a situation. Ladies it seems that you might be screwed. The great guys are being overlooked and the awsome females are caught up with the vultures. HMMMM back to the real world for me.

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swartzie9726

Joined: 5/1/2013

Unfortunately some guys just never learned how to respect the female. I was raised to respect the fairer sex and I do.

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