cause all i see r lies and cheats. no one wants to have anything real any more.all games and fakeness.

i agree to that, or they want us to be their slaves, both physically and sexually.. Sex is not everything in a relationship, and most guys think it is. THere's more to a relationship than just sex, there's communication, which alot of men lack.

If you keep encountering these problems, you should look at what you are doing that may be inviting the behavior. I personally have never had this problem, with any guy I've gone out with, even for just one date. I think sometimes we invite these things without realizing it.

thanks jem. you said what i wanted to but just couldn't quite figure out how to word it.

No it doesn't mean that im inviting the behaviors in. it's just they see my personality of kindhearted as a means to control me, and/or take advantage of me. it has nothing to do with me letting them do it, that's why i usually break up with them.

but first you must be somewhat attracted to that type. i am very kindhearted and giving and have not had that trouble at all.
as jem said, perhaps you are subconsciously inviting it.

I am not accusing you of anything. I think you are misinterpreting what I said. People will absolutely take advantage of the kind hearted. I know that all too well. When people continually take advantage of you, then you need to adapt ways to prevent it, otherwise it will continue happening. You either adapt or receive the treatment. There are no other options.

this is webdate...the men here are sleazy, let's just cut the bullshit. the want to wack off and that's it. 98% of them are married anyway. this is not the site for a relationship. if you want something real try Eharmony or match.com
just being honest girl, cause men do take advantage, and it's nothing your doing personally, that is how they are.
good luck here , personally i think like a man so i play these b****es right back. lol

this is a bit of a witch hunt by the sounds of thing's, not all of us men are like that, i could say the same about women as well but i find there's good & bad in all.
pearsonaly i would like to find someone who would just be themselves & not someone who they think you want.

Welll said.

if you have been on this site for more than 6 months and haven't found someone
YOU are wasting your time and playing games.
or your hideous one or the other. just go out into the real fucking world and meet someone!! the same fake bitches you meet here are the same ones your gonna meet on the street. so just get over your fear and do it. because webdate is not for dating this is a jack-off site for people who can't afford to find a real relationship. So if your in it for a good laugh, waste your time here.
actually ZOOSK has alot of nice people, the reason those sites that charge you to find someone are so popular is because it is REAL. this isn't..... trust me.

Girl you got that right......sooooooo soooo true

i think every site is what you make of it. i met a great guy on here. we didn't make a connection but we made a great friendship.

I met two of the best friends I have ever had on this site. Staying on the site to chat with friends doesn't make us losers or lame or whatever else you said. It sounds like you have been burned on the site. Which is too bad. But don't blame the entire site for it.

well said jem, just because we're here doesn't mean we're hard up or desperate, people do make friends on these sites.

um, i am married and if i wasn't id never date anyone online . if you have friends fucking add them and chat it up on facebook . Sounds like your in denial. I'm married but i love girls (cam 2 cam with em')!! hahaha so yeahhhhhhhh it's like that.
Get ur ugly azz out and shake hands and meet people DAMN. what's wrong with that. webdate is a bootycall dating site, it is what it is! dumb azz
everyone has opinions and that is mine, you stated yours and i gave mine back, suck it or keep it moving.

i met my hubby online so dates are possible and even probable for the right person.
so you just come on here to disrespect your spouse by camming. i don't find that such a great life.
that is MY opinion.

Get ur ugly azz out and shake hands and meet people DAMN. what's wrong with that. webdate is a bootycall dating site, it is what it is! dumb azz 
everyone has opinions and that is mine, you stated yours and i gave mine back, suck it or keep it moving.

Keep it respectful, please.

I think most people want the same things; love, respect, and above all happiness. Some guys, and girls for that matter take the wrong route to getting it, myself included. Some people also dont know what they want out of a relationship and or arent willing to work for it....not a matter of games or fakeness.

I hate to break it to ya but it ain't just men doin it. Doesn't make it right but it is what it is.

Why are you such a bitch? Geez!!! Calm the hell down!!!!