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*Sliver!*

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Jesus Fuckin Christ!

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BUDDYSIMS

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i attend to agree with you i guess i am not what people want i am to old fashion but to each his or her on

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gamaforce

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Buddy, I have given "the basis of relationships" alot of thought. Everything seems to be pointing to the need for "similar belief systems". Lets face it, what people believe has a Hugh impact on the way the perform their lives, what they are and are not willing to do and so on. Does this mean the basis for a good relationships is a similar belief system. I think soo! Maybe so many people fail because of differing belief systems. Maybe so many people dicide not to get involved becuase of a weakened belief system.

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jenjen1970

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Marriage is about commitment and work. It will never work if only one person can take the bad along with the good. Understanding each other is very important also. It isn't about what a person is like anymore, it is more about what a person can bring into the marriage. We may be in the 21st century, but believe it or not we might as well be in the 18th with arranged marriages. Some of us still live by those values...who cares about the person....what does the person have that will make the marriage a valuable match. I'm ultimately screwed where that is concerned...lol. I have nothing of value, but myself...:)

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jenjen1970

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Oh and btw...using God's name in vain or even Jesus is just wrong. I'm not a relgious person, but I do believe in a higher being. God just happens to be who I believe in. I would not curse anyone's beliefs. You never know who is right about it. It may come back and bite you in a very unpleasant way.

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RoadWarrior

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Reply to: There is no Jesus and marriage is a crock of shit.
why do you hide your face and swear like a diseased delusion? yes their is the Lord and you'll meet him face to face one day, their is a God no matter what you think or don't think the universe dosen't revolve around you and never will for that matter, you obviously no nothing of real Love like somany others and with that attitude you probably never will, merry ? ..caca day to you i guess, the rest of us will celebrate Christmas.

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*Sliver!*

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jem1987

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Reply to: why do you hide your face and swear like a diseased delusion? yes their is the...
The world doesn't revolve around you either. So what makes you think you theory on the world is any better than hers? That's completely hypocritical, selfish, ridiculous... et cetera.

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JAYZ37

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i havent fo und the perfect bride yet either,after a 13 1/2 yr. marriage!!!

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jenjen1970

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You are entitled to believe whatever you like, but that doesn't make those of us that do believe in a higher being pathetic or that we don't believe in ourselves. Atheist is the only religion that doesn't believe in a God, don't that seem odd to you? I find it odd. That there is only ONE group of individuals that don't believe in a god form. I always believed that religion is about a form of God. How can Atheist be concidered a religion instead of classified as a cult? Whether there is a god or not, can anyone, anywhere say that there is any or not? No you can't. I for one would rather believe that there is a higher being than believe there isn't one. That way when I pass from this world if there is a God I will be excepted. If there isn't a god then what is there to lose? Some call him God, Budah, some believe there is more than one god and goddess, etc... No one knows for sure what the correct form of god is, only that the largest part of this WORLD is raised to believe there is a higher being.

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jenjen1970

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BTW...if your in a relationship, why are you on a date site?

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jem1987

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jenjen1970

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Reply to: Atheism is not a religion. It's a belief that there is no god. A belief is no...
Aheism was taught in my World religion class. I agree with you, but I would have to disagree (politely) with your comparison with atheist to montheism and polytheism...only because if they don't believe in a form of god how can they compare with those that do?

I was not saying per say that Buddha is a god...lol. Only that Buddhaism believes in a form of high power as do the largest part of the world. :)

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jem1987

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Well, actually, you did say Buddha is a god by saying some call him god and some call him Buddha. In any case, only some Buddhists believe in a higher power. Many Buddhists are actually atheists. The same goes for pagan religions, such as Wiccan. There is also an atheistic form of satanism.

Yes, atheism can be compared to monotheism and polytheism because they are on the same level; theism. They all answer the question "Is there a god?" The monotheist would say "Yes, there is one god." The polytheist would say "Yes, there are many gods." And the atheist would say "No, there is no god." All three are beliefs about the idea of god.

Atheism can't be considered a cult, as you mentioned, because it has absolutely no qualities of one. Because, again, it is just one belief and nothing more. Christianity, however, has every requirement to be considered a cult. The only real differences between cults and religions is the ratio of how many people believe you to how many people think you're crazy.

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jenjen1970

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Reply to: Well, actually, you did say Buddha is a god by saying some call him god and som...
This is why there are religion wars...:) The point I was trying to get across boils down to whether you believe in one or not is no reason to attack those that do or don't.

Did you take world religion or a religion class? Your very smart about them. I myself am still learning and find the different religions fascinating.

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jem1987

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No, I've never taken a class. But I love learning about different cultures, so I do my research. It's difficult to find information that isn't biased, when it comes to religion, but it exists.

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RoadWarrior

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Reply to: BTW...if your in a relationship, why are you on a date site?
lol good point. cuz she's an attention whore and self centered and selfish, i have no hatred tward athiests, but why is it they are so full of hate and fight the existence of our God? hmmm., lol,, true science mathmatecally proves the existance of God, she calls me pathetic and sad, but i'm not sad, so i will never get that way of thinking accept that it's ignorant and pure pride.

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jem1987

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Neither science nor math has proven the existence of a god, the same as neither has disproved the existence of a god. Most atheists are not full of hate and anger against god, just against people who try to push their beliefs onto them. You are complaining about their supposed hate, yet here you are calling someone you've spoken to only once self-centered, selfish, etc. I find that the most hateful, judgmental people I know are most often the most religious. Note the use of the word most, and not all, before you freak out about not everyone being that way. It goes the same for atheists. Everyone is different. There are hateful people in every group. And there are loving people in ever group.

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gamaforce

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This is a little off topic, but can anyone tell me why there are so many people who do not believe in the one true God, and claim there is no God yet espouse other religions which always claim some form of heiarcy?

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RoadWarrior

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lol cuz brother satan loves to divide and kill those who are seperated and alone it's easier prey, i respect all the religions as having a common denominator of peace Love, and respect of others. but peronally i believe in my heart of hearts that Christ is the only begotton son and he that believes in him shall never persih but have eternal life,.. not to mention all the scientific proof of spirits and ghosts and the list goes on, and cannot prove God exists to an athiest no more than i can prove i have a headache, lol, but yet it's their isn't it? same with true Love it's their, but can i pull out Love and hold it in my hand and say see? this blob of Love i am holding? no, same with God. so be it i would rather believe than end up in hell some day wishing i went with the winning team.

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jem1987

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I don't know any atheist that supports religions, but I do know plenty that respect certain religions. From most atheists and agnostics point of view, the Christian/Catholic religions are the most ridiculous and make the least amount of sense. Agnostics and atheists are generally people who are run more by logic than emotion, and these religions just go against logic in almost every way. So, to them, these religions are just as ridiculous as atheism is to a Christian.

I am not a fan of religion in general myself, but there are some that I can tolerate and even respect, as a whole. Buddhism is a great example. Have you ever heard of a massacre in the name of Buddha? I sure haven't. Wiccan is another great example. This religion teaches acceptance, respect, love, etc.

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jem1987

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Headaches can be proven, actually. Love can be proven, to a certain extent, but it's mostly circumstantial proof. God, however, cannot be proven, or disproved. To an atheist or anyone else. If you believe in him, that's fine, but you should follow him if you do. Jesus Christ taught love and acceptance. He was especially favorable to outcasts. So why so much hate? Just because she said something you found offensive, that makes it ok? Would Jesus be hateful towards someone who didn't like him? I highly doubt that. I don't necessarily believe in a god, but if I did, I would hate to meet him with so much hate in my heart.

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RoadWarrior

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no it proves his existance and it's obvious the girl is hateful by her swearing her head off tward christian beliefs, or jewish or Buddhists, or anyone who knows they have a spirit a mind and a body, i'm a spirit living in a body, the body will drop dead one day, the spirit is eternal, i just know that to be the truth, not many truths and grey areas, it's above the human brain, even the obvious universe you see when you look up in the sky, no one can wrap their mind around it so why even argue about it, this is a free blog forum, i can say what i want i'm not pushing God on anyone, that's the devils job, i won't sit their read vulgar shit about God and not say what i want it's a free country. hmm or is it anymore?

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RoadWarrior

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Reply to: Headaches can be proven, actually. Love can be proven, to a certain extent, bu...
because it's the PC if you were next to me not hiding behind a PC i wouldn't sound so hiporcritical, which btw everyone is a hypocrite, yes i am too sometimes, i never said i was christ,, gawd ! i do follow it, that's how i know it works and is real, if you knew me before that would be the proof but you don't i don't know you either, for the abundence of the heart the mouth speaks, whatever is inside someone comes out of their mouth, i was agnostic too at one time, it was too dark and confusing for me to carry one, for me God either is or he isn't which is it?

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jenjen1970

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well to lighten up the subject...let us all bow our heads to pray, "Dear Lord, father, holy spirit, or whatever be thy name please have a talk with your charity partner, I've been donating to the lottery charity for sometime and although I am proud to contribute the winners that have thus far won and are going to have a wonderful holiday, I am wondering when oh lord will the lottery charity mighty being pick my numbers? Not being pushy or overly greedy, for lord I don't play the millions only the rolling five which would be enough to pay bills off and get a home. Just asking...love you. Amen" Thank you for your help....lol.

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