Is it even possible to find someone who will show any amount of interest for MORE then 2 days? Or is it just that we all have too many choices on here (or any other dating site for that matter) that we start to like someone but if they arent on for a day we move on? Im really about fed up....

That seems to be the way it goes on here. But I think if 2 people really connect on here it can last. Just very hard to find that kind of connection and yes...there is alot of temptation on here for both men and women.

i think it is possible, but i have found that most guys on here are really just flirting, looking for sex, or cyber sex....i have not found but a few that seem to be interested in more, and thank God i think i have found one that is promising for a possible relationship....

i think it is possible, but i have found that most guys on here are really just flirting, looking for sex, or cyber sex....i have not found but a few that seem to be interested in more, and thank God i think i have found one that is promising for a possible relationship....

well...Im on two other dating sites...and that seems to be the name of the game...if you arent in someones face 24-7 they move on to the next one who will talk to to them...

For someone in sales and marketing, it would seem that you would know better than most on how to captivate someone's attention and keep them coming back. The good news is that it doesnt sound like you are wasting time on guys that have different goals than you do. I suppose that is some consolation.

I dont think being in someones face 24-7 is ever a good thing or healthy. And if someone actually needs that kind of attention who the hell has time for that!

I don't mind giving my undivided attention to my significant other, but 24/7 is way too much esp. if you have to pay the bills around the home. That's where working and hobbies and "me time" come into play. Some like to have some downtime with their friends and it actually helps to have that to make a relationship stay strong. I dunno, that's just my opinion and imma be sticking to that story.

Being together 24/7 is what fucks up a relationship.

First off, although I do concur with your point of view on this site, you're kind of generalizing this site just a tad. It's the people that you meet from the site that makes the site worthwhile, not the site in of itself. sure, there's plenty of morons and idiots within this site that can cause such a generalization, but just try to be a bit more open minded about the sites you go to, and I guarantee you will have better results. Just weed out the idiots along the way.

Regarding relationships, as the other already have indicated, too much of anything isn't good for you. Especially being around your significant other for too much of your time. It make you look VERY clingy and needy, which is not a good look at all. Every person needs their alone time and space and their mates must respect or that will be the first sign of a relationship going south really quick.

i agree have space time makes the hart grow fawnder...lol..with the right person .who ever you are silver your a riot..lol

uh oh...you are in trouble...it is sliver, not silver.

Everyone messes that new name up lol Maybe that's a sign that it's time for a NEW one? huh? maybe? lol

While we're at it..


Heart, Fonder, You're.

whew....noone noticed i had slipped into the 30 to 45 forum.

Don't worry Nighty, we'll just pass you off as a very mature 34. :-)

Dear freind , i think like you too.
i would like to discuss more about this subject with you.
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