I have to express frustration in how each gender perceives the other in initiating relationships. Some of the fundamental issues I have noticed on the female's part is that they tend to be inconsiderate of what a male is really saying when he seems to only be interested in sex. In contrast how males tend to respond to women perhaps because of wanting a more emotional connection before being interested in sexual aspects. First, I would like to speak for myself in my reasoning for focusing on sex. Sex for me is a way to get close to a woman and then I can open up more because my rejection issues have been satiated with what I need emotionally from a partner. Rejection or denial of sex for males makes them more proned to not wanting to get close to a girl even after sex and this is at least a chunk of the population of males out there. Hence, they are all focused on sex and many that's all it is gonna be because of their intimacy issues and it is largely in part to you females who have shunned them so! For females wanting that emotional connection up front and sex secondly is working against things working in a relationship perhaps because your demanding unnatural behavior from the male so you have a bunch of males being trained to act fake and kiss a girls ass to get some..Anyway, my big ass can of worms I just opened wasn't even touched but hey there is just wish we could mutually appreciate what each other needs and our social dynamics would be more successful in relationships.